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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 640078" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>Cedar, you are amazing. It was hard yesterday night because after my daughter calmed down and talked to my brother she called me to let me know she will be making a decision on whether or not to move in with him by Tuesday. She also had a purpose in calling me last night on her way home and I didn't realize it until the end of the call. She was explaining what hurt her in the past and I sat and listened. Then she started telling me many good things about me. At the end of the call she said her whole purpose of our talk last night was to apologize for all that she has said to me and she couldn't move out without me knowing how sorry she was. She didn't want to leave me feeling like how she made me feel, especially after her aunt called her. I called her aunt in desperation yesterday and aunt told difficult child that she heard such pain and distress in my voice that she thought I was going to off myself even though I didn't say that. Aunt told her she can't cut me down to nothing and stomp all over me, that I am only a human being and can take so much before a human being snaps. difficult child says she is fully aware now that she has a problem and doesn't trust herself not to unleash her rage onto me again. I know she loves me, I know she feels like crap over what she says and does to me once the anger wears off, she said she knows I had really no control over anything when she was a kid, but it still leaves her hurt and angry regardless and I get that. She is still very young and wrestling with her demons.</p><p></p><p>This is coming from me now. Someone has have the blame and being as I was the mother, of course the blame will be laid at my feet. It's just the way it is and I know that. A mother is suppose to protect their child from bad things, and I couldn't protect her very well from a lot of things. As another poster said (I forget who said it right now) I was young when I had her and should have known better than to bring a child into a world I couldn't handle myself. At that time, I really wanted a baby and someone to love, and love me unconditionally. I was one of the ones who had zero clue of how much work and responsibility it was to have a child. When I say zero, I mean zero , but I should have. I struggled the worse out of all the young moms that I knew. Anyway, hopefully she goes stays with my brother and it's breaking my heart but I know it has to be done. We most certainly need a break. Time to forget all the nasty things. This is a must, you know?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 640078, member: 18233"] Cedar, you are amazing. It was hard yesterday night because after my daughter calmed down and talked to my brother she called me to let me know she will be making a decision on whether or not to move in with him by Tuesday. She also had a purpose in calling me last night on her way home and I didn't realize it until the end of the call. She was explaining what hurt her in the past and I sat and listened. Then she started telling me many good things about me. At the end of the call she said her whole purpose of our talk last night was to apologize for all that she has said to me and she couldn't move out without me knowing how sorry she was. She didn't want to leave me feeling like how she made me feel, especially after her aunt called her. I called her aunt in desperation yesterday and aunt told difficult child that she heard such pain and distress in my voice that she thought I was going to off myself even though I didn't say that. Aunt told her she can't cut me down to nothing and stomp all over me, that I am only a human being and can take so much before a human being snaps. difficult child says she is fully aware now that she has a problem and doesn't trust herself not to unleash her rage onto me again. I know she loves me, I know she feels like crap over what she says and does to me once the anger wears off, she said she knows I had really no control over anything when she was a kid, but it still leaves her hurt and angry regardless and I get that. She is still very young and wrestling with her demons. This is coming from me now. Someone has have the blame and being as I was the mother, of course the blame will be laid at my feet. It's just the way it is and I know that. A mother is suppose to protect their child from bad things, and I couldn't protect her very well from a lot of things. As another poster said (I forget who said it right now) I was young when I had her and should have known better than to bring a child into a world I couldn't handle myself. At that time, I really wanted a baby and someone to love, and love me unconditionally. I was one of the ones who had zero clue of how much work and responsibility it was to have a child. When I say zero, I mean zero , but I should have. I struggled the worse out of all the young moms that I knew. Anyway, hopefully she goes stays with my brother and it's breaking my heart but I know it has to be done. We most certainly need a break. Time to forget all the nasty things. This is a must, you know? [/QUOTE]
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