Ok....after my lovely son told me he didn't want to do Occupational Therapist (OT) anymore, she wanted to meet with me to discuss matters. So we did....on the way my son said, ok he will do Occupational Therapist (OT) again.....he drives me nuts! But I was glad because this will be the first time he can learn to work through things and not run away or avoid stuff he finds difficult. Her discussion started of by CRITISIZING my parenting skills!!!!OMW! There she was...sitting there trying to give me parenting 101....she is currently getting divorced, 10 yr younger than me with no kids! I told her that if she can tell me how to get my son to obay all my rules and requests, I will give her gold! She said that me and husband need to put down some rules and a child needs to realize that this rules can't be broken! Ok...so what....must he be forced to go to therapy?! I told her that I cant force him into the car exct.! And I told her that I am sick and tired of people telling me that my son is ruling us! THEN she asked me if we ever received parent training! Oh my goodness!....Yes for the last 5 yrs! Normal rules that apply to NT doesnt always work with ghg! Then she went on compairing my son with other kids of 3 yr old...saying that they are able to come to therapy without their mommy! Not like my son!(That by the way is struggling with seperation anxiety!) Fact is....and I told her so: If my son didn't struggle with all this and I knew how to cope with it...we wouldnt need Occupational Therapist (OT)! At the end we came to some agreement and my son agreed to do Occupational Therapist (OT) during schooltime without his mom exct! Can you believe this!