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    Unhappy Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    I had foot surgery last Friday for joint implant in my right big toe worm out by arthritis. I've had awful pain in my feet for two years now and it got to the point where I had to have somethng done. The surgery went well and although I was in much more pain than I ever thought possible, it has been healing and I was able to walk carefully in post op shoe without crutches for the first time Wednesday.

    I have now done something to my left foot by having to put so much weight on it that it now hurts worse than my right foot. I woke in the middle of the night in excruciating pain. The ball of my foot hurts to the touch and seems to stretch down the sole of my foot. This started two days ago but has suddenly gotten to the point where I can't put any weight on it. I have my appointment Monday to remove the stitches so of course I will tell him, it won't be hard to figure out when I come hobbling in. But I am so deperessed that I went through all this pain only to have the good foot hurt worse than the bad one. I knew I was going to have to have the same surgery ont he other foot but was hoping for some relief. I'm afraid I pushed it over the edge and I hate sitting here not able to get around.

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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    (((HUGS))) I think you should call the dr. right away. Let them know how much pain you're in. There is no reason to suffer, at the very least he can tell you if this is normal and you may need to ask for a stonger pain medication. You can't wait until Monday, don't worry about if you are taking up their time. You just had surgery. They will gladly take care of you now, the dr, will call you today I'm sure, you can probably even see him. I'm sorry you're in so much pain! Call now.
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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    Normally I would and if it was the foot I had surgery on I defintely would but that is healing well. He is in surgery on Fridays so wouldn't be able to see me and since I really am not suppose to be walking anyway I can sit for the weekend and continue to ice. I tried vicoden and percocet after surgery and they both made me sick so I'm just taking my advil and as long as I'm icing it's bearable. My biggest fear is that by overcompensating on that foot I pushed it over the edge and the only thing that will help now is surgery.

    It's a good thing the Olympics start tonight so I have incentive to sit here.

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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    Nancy the shoe for the surgery is probably throwing off your gait and you're bracing your good foot differently on the floor to maintain balance. You've over used muscles you don't normally use that way. Try soaking your good foot in a warm/hot Epsom salt bath. When starting off without the crutches......do so in short intervals at first, you start feeling a strain on the good foot, go back to using the crutches and give it a chance to rest (sometimes 1 crutch will do) When it's rested, you can give it another go.

    I had the same issue when I broke all the bones in my right foot and the doc gave me a stupid canvas/wooden soled "boot" to wear. Once I could tolerate more pressure on the bad foot, the muscle knots and cramps on the good foot was less and less. What I wasn't prepared for was when the boot came off and I had to work through this a 2nd time in bare feet on the floor, but that was a much faster transition.

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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    I agree with UAN - however this sounds all too familiar!!! Sounds like too much weight damaged your plantar fascia, ie Achilles tendon... And it's second only to tooth pain IMO.

    Try to sleep with your foot flexed as much as you can. This will stretch out the tendon so it can start to heal properly. What happened was it got slightly damaged, then your foot was pointed down in sleep and stayed there and it started to heal lax instead of taut. My doc also showed me how to put that foot behind me, toes pointed forward, and leaaaaaannnnn forward slowly to stretch it.

    Honestly the only thing that fixed it for me was a 7-mile walk around DC with FIL several years back... And then sleeping flexed...
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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    By relying more on your left leg/foot for stability following your surgery, you probably are placing a burden on the left foot and are using it differently than is normal. You should at least put a call into your Drs office - why suffer over the weekend and wait until Monday? And, if it is something other than a strain, wouldn't you like to know and take care of it as soon as possible?

    I hope it feels better. Have you considered soaking the left foot in a bath of epsom salts? That may help relieve some pain if it's due to use issues, strained muscles, etc. Hugs~
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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    Thank you so much for the hope you've given me, this board is filled with so much knowledge. I do think I injured my plantar fascia as I was putting all the burden on that foot, even hopping on it when my crutches were not near and I had to get somewhere. I'm hoping so much I just injured that and it will recover if I put no weight on it. I am going to try to do some stretches with that foot.

    Nancy
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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    I'm sending caring supportive thoughts your way. I have NO experience with that type of pain but ?? know what ?? LOL! I relate to the issue your facing between your ears. People like you and I (and the other WM's) are not meant to sit on their fanny watching television, or lay in the blankin' bed, or depend on others to bring a fresh drink or grab a bite to eat etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. That's almost as bad as pain. I understand that....ugh. Hugs DDD
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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    Oh Nancy! I am having problems with my achilles tendon and I feel your pain. Try some tiger balm, some gentle stretches and a foot massage if you can manage it. I had a pedicure last week and the lady next to me is a runner and she was in there just for the foot bath and the foot and calf massage (no polish). It was one of the cheap nail salons - and she pays them for the foot massage in lieu of a pedicure.

    Or try resting your aching foot on a heating pad or hot water bottle.

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    Re: Biggest non-gfg whine of my life

    You do need to put a small amount of weight on it, sweetie - but no more hopping!!! I'd still call the dr. though.

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