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Hugs and prayers to you!
GO Go go... let Dh figure it out for himself, this is what YOU need to be healthy.
Hugs and prayers to you!
Me:30's
DH:40's
Cultured GFG (formerly PC2):teen F, ADD, some processing delays
Wee GFG:9 M, HYPER; plethra of dx'es
I say anxiety is the cause for a lot of the hyper, but what do I know...I'm just the mom
(((((hugs)))))
I am so sorry you are struggling with all of this. PLEASE go to the hospital. What you say about your doctor is scary. How can he sit there and not say anything, but just up what you are supposed to eat when it MUST be clear you are not yet eating what they assigned before the increase? The doctor clearly is not engaged in the healing process with you. Go and find one who is able to meet your needs. That doc might be right for someone, not that I can imagine who that would be, but he isn't right for you.
PLEASE let your dh see/hear all of it. He is an adult and will figure out how to deal. If he can't? Then he has to deal with that.
FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE, PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please go to the hospital, even if dh doesn't like it or is mad. You NEED it. Your LIFE is at stake, We will be here for you, but you have to be here or we can't be here for you!!! PLEASE go to the hospital that iwll help you. This outpatient thing just isn't working. It doesn't matter WHAT eating plan they give you if you cannot eat it. Half a cliff bar or no cliff bar or a dozen cliff bars makes no difference if you are not ready and able to eat them. Right now your body would reject them if you tried to eat them all. Go to the hospital. let them help you with this battle. We are not going anywhere. If you can post from the hospital that is fine. If you cannot? We wll STILL be prayng for you and sending good vibes and wanting the best for you and when you get out we will be here.
Dh will deal with it. You cannot control him and you cannot worry about what is best for him other than you being healthy. YOU must be your priority, not dh's feelings. Those are his responsibility. Not yours.
Love you and want you to get the help you need.
Susie - Mom of 3, only 2 live at home.
Wiz -pc/gfg- 18yo son in COLLEGE!
J - pc-15yo dau, Homeschool 9th gr, sweetie!
T - pc 10yo son - SID, 4rd gr. Inventor
Dh - my best friend
Cats-Captain Morgan
http://www.conductdisorders.com/foru...evaluation-10/
It sounds to me like dh is in denial. I think things will be better and he will see the difference when you are healthy. You have to get healthy and leave the rest (including him and his opinions) behind until you are better.
*meSAHM Work p/t @ home. Moderator in Watercooler.
*Dh - Great Dad and Husband
*gfg - "Missy"-11 Mood disorder,EOBP,adhd(inattentive type). VERY reactive to Food coloring and corn syrup. Seizure disorder, asthma. Risperdal, Lamictal.
*PC male aka "Mighty Mouse"- 8, Great kid! Dennis the Menace meets Bam Bam. Oh, Mr. Wiiiiiiilson!
*Lab/beagle mix(f)...sweetheart
*My mother's side of family are all chocful of disorders-amazing I am as normal as I think!
Please take care of yourself. I agree with the others that sometimes (ok most of the time) we have to just put it out there for our DH's....because they don't always pick up on non-verbal stuff.
I hope you'll go into the hospital and get healthy. You are brave and strong and can do this.
Me- Bipolar I, SAHM
DH-Good person
PC - 18 y/o DD - Good kid
GFG - 16 y/o DS - High Functioning Autism, severe hearing loss
My DH doesn't pick up on "verbal" clues to say nothing of "nonverbal" ones. He is kind to the core but oblivious. DDD
DH & I have raised our 25 yr.old grandson. At 14 he turned to pot & booze to cope with problems. He's a GFG#1. In 2005 he fell off a balcony, had brain surgery and has TBI effects. His recovery is very stressful. Time will tell if he ends up GFG or PC. Our GFG#2 is 21 and now lives with his GFGmom. He's ADHD, AS, BP plus. DH and I have 6 children and 11 grands. Yikes!
Even if there weren't "something wrong with you" to your husband's satisfaction, he should absolutely realize that no one in their right mind would check themselves into that type of place if there were nothing wrong with them. He can either accept that what you say is true, and you need help; or that what you're saying isn't true, and you need help.
Hope this makes sense. {{{{{{{{{{{Big hugs}}}}}}}}}}}
Me - 50, PTSD, FSH Muscular Dystrophy, Factor V Leiden. DH of 26 years is the love of my life. We're making big changes.
GFG L - 28 y/o. Grew up with her dad. dx'd ADHD, but much more, no meds. (RAD?) FSH MD. About to enter into a disastrous marriage, God help the man.
GFG M - 25 y/o, dx ODD/CD Axis II, depression, Bi-polar, no meds. FSH MD. Professional Sofa Surfer currently with Maternal Grandma.
Mandy the Labrador, and Oscar the Not an Aussiedoodle.
"Res Ipsa Loquitor"
At your weight sounds like your DH willfully let you claim everything is fine when his eyes should have told him otherwise. Don't pretend and take care of YOU.
Me: 35, ADD, SID, depression (uni-polar), PTSD, Aspie ASD. On Latuda and Topamax to cope.
Kiddo: gfg female, 10, gifted, ADHD, bi-polar(?), ODD, Aspie ASD, likely others including SID. Currently on Abilify, Tegretal, Kapvay, Clonidine, Topamax
"Illness may explain why something happens, Harry, but it never excuses the act." - The Dead Detective, by William Heffernan
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