I cannot post the whole article due to not wanting this to be a religious discussion, but basically this sums it up. The problem is, we also have a "system" that taps the wrists of many kids...Kids need to learn that choices have consequences and that they will not always be rescued. Mommy or daddy won’t always be there to pay for their mistakes and bail them out.
And then there are our GFGs.
(If you want the link I can PM.)