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    Seussical mrscatinthehat's Avatar
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    As if I wanted this .......

    Dh and I decided when we got together I was going to stay home to be with the kids. Then all heck broke loose with gfgness abounding. Thus with dh's schedule to make appointments me getting a job was not even an option.

    Last December I finally started working after almost five years. Same place as dh. I work extreme part time doing janitor work.

    Well the boss decides a month ago to go to everyother week pay roll. He is the boss so no choice there.

    I got my check today and it is missing a 1/4 of what I had been making. No it is not taxes or anything like that. He had been essentially paying me a flat rate no matter what I worked. That is what we agreed to and if I went over that amount he said he would pay me more. Well I am much more efficient than I used to be with my time. I do the same work a little less time. So he decided to reduce the amount to pay me.

    This is one of the problems I have with it. He didn't even say he was going to do so. I found out I was getting less when I opened the check.

    We have obviously become dependent on the money (this is how I pay for cell phone and it is a contract) and a few other things.

    I know he is the boss and can change what he wants but how do you do that and not say anything. He was there this morning when I was and said nothing. Dh picked up the checks and brought them in a few minutes ago.

    What do I do about this? Do people not know common curtosy any more?

    Beth
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    gfg2- 18m I adopted this one after BM walked out of the picture. RTC since 10 of 2005 Moved to state training school (Juvie) 2-7-08. Going to an adult facility.

    pc-20f by no means perfect. National Guard and College Student

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    Re: As if I wanted this .......

    Ok problem resolved. Evidentally with the change from every week to every other week payroll they also changed the days payroll goes from.

    Thankfully I didn't say anything on this someone else did and boss was letting people know.

    One problem down.

    Beth
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    gfg1-21f in rtc since august of 2003. ODD, ADHD, CD, RAD, Borderline personality traits, borderline intelectual functioning. Living with BM at the moment.
    gfg2- 18m I adopted this one after BM walked out of the picture. RTC since 10 of 2005 Moved to state training school (Juvie) 2-7-08. Going to an adult facility.

    pc-20f by no means perfect. National Guard and College Student

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    Re: As if I wanted this .......

    I'm glad you got an explanation and things worked out.
    me--49, office worker.
    DH--58, married 26 years, loving husband, typical ostrich as a dad. Used to think GFG was a TT and would grow out of all of it--is now a firm believer in meds.
    GFG--M, 19, bipolar (formerly dx ADD/ODD, then dysthymia/severe ODD). Was taking Lamictal with good results, no meds at present (doesn't need them, he says). Got his GED, quit technical school halfway through. Finally has a job, but doesn't seem to feel the need to go in EVERY day.
    Pup--11-year-old toy poodle, belongs to GFG, loves everyone. Was a pc, but is becoming a gfg (defiant, won't follow rules).

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    Re: As if I wanted this .......

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    Re: As if I wanted this .......

    Glad someone else decided to ask and it is resolved. I'm sure it's a relief for you. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whew.gif[/img]
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    Re: As if I wanted this .......

    Yes it is. I am just so cranky about gfg stuff that I was jumping before I was looking when things didn't look right.

    Beth
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    gfg2- 18m I adopted this one after BM walked out of the picture. RTC since 10 of 2005 Moved to state training school (Juvie) 2-7-08. Going to an adult facility.

    pc-20f by no means perfect. National Guard and College Student

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    Re: As if I wanted this .......

    We did this recently.....and there were two men who absolutely could NOT live with the change. Their wives called and complained (to me - as if!)- I'm the office mgr. bookkeeper janitor.

    So I talked to the boss and changed it back for those 2. Payroll is SO much fun now. I have 2 /weekly, subs weekly, 1 monthly, and 4 bi weekly. I figure when I go for another job somewhere to make more money I can say I did this and it will appear brilliant.

    If you can't hack bi weekly....as the boss to ask the bookkeeper if she could cut you a check ever week.

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