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    A "kind of" update on Buddy

    Q went through a very rough patch that included a hosp visit (not a stay) because he was being so aggressive with Buddy. She is also trying to work on unpacking ...... slowly. And then there is the car issue that she thought was wonderfully solved only to have it turn out much less than even satisfactory. Lots going on in her life and she is finding herself physically and emotionally exhausted lately.

    She did say she misses everyone here and admitted that the people that could help her through it are here but she just doesn't have the energy to even check in right now.

    Please keep her in her prayers and send her whatever cosmic strength (literally) that you can spare. She's struggling and I have seen first hand the power this "family" has and how strongly it works.

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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    Sending out hugs and calm, and hoping things can hold together until school is back in - because the routine will be good for Q...

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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    Sending up prayers and sending good thoughts.

    ((hugs))
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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    Thanks TeDo for the update. Buddy's such a blessing to this board and I sure miss her cheer and her very helpful encouragement. So sorry to hear she's had so many challenges of late.
    I'm praying for Q and for Buddy and for peace, calm and healing in their lives (and in their car). Hope she can check in soon...
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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    Hugs and lots of prayers.
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    PC/former GFG #2: 32 did not learn to read until 18, struggled, just graduated and is an RN, 1 child

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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    Sending lots of strong, calming juju to our Buddy...hugs too! I miss her.

    I hope things with Q settle down quickly so she can catch a break.
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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    I'm pretzeling and sending extra calm and good vibes to her and Q too.
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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    TeDo - Thank you for the update on Buddy.

    She will definitely be in my prayers.

    Buddy - My thoughts are with you and Q. Hoping that life settles down for you, that Q finds some calm and peace and that you are able to get settled into your new home. And of course that the situation with your car works out wonderfully.

    Big hugs to you and thanks for your support in the past and for being such an inspiration here!
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    urrently couch surfing and failing grade 11

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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    Sending prayers and hugs to Buddy, hoping it all gets easier, simpler and more peaceful.
    Me- 63 year old healthy optimist
    SO- gentle, funny, loving fiancee, who is my best friend and greatest support
    GFG- 40 year old bio daughter, not diagnosed but fits numerous mental illness'
    We're raising our 17 year old granddaughter who is a joyful PC




    "There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle." Albert Einstein.


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    Re: A "kind of" update on Buddy

    Really sensing caring thoughts that the light at the end of the tunnel is a good new school for Q that results in more peace at home. DDD
    DH & I have raised our 25 yr.old grandson. At 14 he turned to pot & booze to cope with problems. He's a GFG#1. In 2005 he fell off a balcony, had brain surgery and has TBI effects. His recovery is very stressful. Time will tell if he ends up GFG or PC. Our GFG#2 is 21 and now lives with his GFGmom. He's ADHD, AS, BP plus. DH and I have 6 children and 11 grands. Yikes!

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