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    My gfg hates me

    And all I can say is it needed to be done. NO she cannot go to that party! and yes, all the other kids hate me! And no, I am not a normal mom. And yes, they are lucky I am not their mom! AND I HAVE RUINED IT FOR EVERYONE!

    **** nudge****
    ****wink*****

    Apparently a lot of other kids can't go to the party now either!


    MOMS UNITE!


    Have a great weekend everyone!
    Me- 40++ single mom
    GFG1 16Girl Depression, GAD, Severe LD, Premie with just lots of stuff going on, sweetheart---- just started zoloft 25 mg
    GFG 15 boy Meds: Zoloft 50 mg, Concerta 54 mg, Risperdal 0.50 mg Second out of district placement- back to district next year? Talented charmer.

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    Re: My gfg hates me

    ?????

    Not sure I know what happened, but my guess is:


    Someone wanted to have a party with no adult supervision and lots of stuff going on that shouldn't.

    You called and asked the parents about it, parents of other kids AND parents of the party thrower.

    You learned the "plan" and refused to let gfg go. You also told other parents about the lack of supervision. Now other parents will not let children go either.

    So gfg (and all her friends) "hate" you.

    My only comment is

    WAY TO GO!!!! GOOD JOB!!!! BE SURE TO LET ALL OF THE PARENTS YOU KNOW IN ON THIS!!!

    enjoy yourself as visibly as possible while gfg fumes. Living well and happily really IS the best revenge!
    Susie - Mom of 3, only 2 live at home.
    Wiz -pc/gfg- 18yo son in COLLEGE!
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    Re: My gfg hates me

    Lol sounds like a mom thing to me haha
    Me - stressed overweight depressed confused and getting the run around, high blood pressure

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    daughter -7 yr old- awesome

    Son-6 yr old- PTSD , ODD , CD , ADHD , RAD , PD , Binge eating disorder, Mood disorders
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    <<<<<not my son lol

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    Re: My gfg hates me

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    Re: My gfg hates me

    She'll thank you for it someday. Someday might be in 40-50 years, but at least you can say I told you so.

    Abbey
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    28 y/o GFG - Three stints in CA prisons; addict ; whereabouts unknown. Endless jail, rehab...you name it.

    29 male PC...somehow defying the odds. Great kid!

    24 female PC...s textbook normal daughter. Loving life.

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    Re: My gfg hates me

    Mission Accomplished!

    Suz
    Me: Former moderator. Member since 1999. "Mimi" to beautiful baby girl.

    Rob: Age 27. Foster child at 3, adopted at 4. RAD, ODD, ADHD combined-type severe, Drug and Alcohol abuse. Tons of meds- no meds now. RTC then group home. Motorcycle accident 8-2009. TBI/brain bleed. Recovering.

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    Re: My gfg hates me

    Remind her of this when her son or daughter is screaming I HATE YOU at her and she calls to beg your forgiveness!

    * I really did call and beg my dad for his forgiveness while my son was screaming at me in the other room...lol.
    Janet, 49,BP, BPD, Arthritis,degenerative disc disease, Anxiety, Fibro,lamictal, topamax, & xanaxER, Ambien
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    Re: My gfg hates me

    When my kids go into that, or ask that much belabored "WHYYYYYYYYYY?" question, I start singing "Cause I'm the Mom" - my own twisted adaptation of Julie Brown's Cause I'm a Blonde" song from Earth Girls Are Easy!

    For those unfamiliar with the song [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rNfZxgkH7k"]YouTube - Cause I'm a Blond[/ame] is the song. And just use Mom instead of blonde!
    Susie - Mom of 3, only 2 live at home.
    Wiz -pc/gfg- 18yo son in COLLEGE!
    J - pc-15yo dau, Homeschool 9th gr, sweetie!
    T - pc 10yo son - SID, 4rd gr. Inventor
    Dh - my best friend
    Cats-Captain Morgan

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    Re: My gfg hates me

    Susie,

    Thanks for that. "Earth Girls Are Easy" is one of those great guilty pleasure films. Love it!
    Me: PT grad student, PT independent contractor, FT going crazy. Divorced.
    GFG: 17-year-old boy dx ADHD, ODD, Vyvanse 70 mg,
    PC: 14-year-old boy

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    Re: My gfg hates me

    Way to go mama! Brilliant hahaha. Also love the song (first time hearing) Soooo thinking of using it myself even though it will evoke an explosion and drama - heck it would be fun to have a lighter side to get through the inevitable...haha

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