Saw Keyana for a few hours today

[Dammit Janet]

Lindsay played games all afternoon yesterday and didnt return my calls even though she had told Cory on Tuesday evening that I could come get Keyana anytime on Wednesday. I tried calling Lindsay from about 3 on to make arrangements and both her phone and her moms went straight to voice mail. They have cells so they would have known I was calling. Finally about 6:45 she called me and told me that I could go get her but she was at her sisters place at the local university. Now I have no clue where she lives in that dorm. How this chick lives there with a 5 year old, I dont know. Maybe she doesnt have her kid but then I dont know who would? Her mom doesnt I know that.

Thankfully Cory was almost due home so he went to pick her up. Mandy had to bring her over to my house this morning for me to watch her because Mandy and McKenzie both had doctor appointments. Mandy promised Keyana that she was going to come pick her up as soon as she got done with the doctor appointment so I took Keyana out to Walmart to get her a couple of outfits, a couple of things to eat and the ever wanted doll that she has to get when we hit the store. This time she wanted one with brown hair...lol. All her other dolls have blond hair. I got a Lunchable for her for her lunch.

My issue is that I am soooooooo sick! The whole time after we got home and she played with her dolls she got bored. Im not that entertaining and with me being sick, I dont feel well enough do much like taking her out. I ended up getting her to take a nap with me for a little while. She kept wanting to call Mandy to find out when she was gonna get there...lol. Then when she got there and I asked her if she wanted to take her new doll with her she shakes her head no and says "nope, I got McKenzie!" LOL

keyana did tell me something that really did upset me. For the last two months she had been telling us that she was having a birthday party at Chucky Cheese and she wanted all of us at it. She even named all of us off specifically. Grandma, Papa, Daddy, Mandy and my little sister. Well, Lindsay told us when we picked up Keyana last night that we needed to have Keyana back early Saturday morning because she had a "family reunion" to go to. I mentioned the family reunion to Keyana and she said that was going to Chucky Cheese for her birthday and we were all supposed to be there on Saturday. I told her I thought she had it wrong. She told me NO...I must be mixed up because her mommy already had the cake bought. So obviously Lindsay is lying to us. And her daughter because she will tell her we just didnt show but I let Keyana know that her mommy hasnt told us anything about it.


But anyway...I am still so sick and hoping tomorrow the doctor can give me some good news. I bought some ensure today to try to drink to get some vitamins in me and I ate some crackers...just saltines but lord am I hungry! Im getting completely week from not eating anything in darned near a week now. But does my family even consider I am sick? Oh no! Every night they come home and look at the stove and then me and the question is "whats for supper?" Ummm....I am sick. I can barely stand and I cant eat. Why would you expect me to cook for you? I was nice enough last night to make some chicken breasts and instant mashed potatoes and they didnt even all get eaten and I only made three very thin ones. To heck with them! Obviously didnt like them. Tony complained I didnt make enough sides...lol. I almost threw the plate at him. There I was sipping an applesauce and he is complaining that I didnt fix green beans along with chicken, corn, and mashed taters. I offered him an applesauce.

Then tonight he comes home after knowing I had Keyana all day which would have worn me out and acts like I should have made supper. Ummm...its thursday, he always gets supper on thursday, why is today different other than he doesnt have his phone on him? Take the initiative to do something for himself. Then about half an hour after that...the phone rings and its Billy...what did you make for supper! OMG!!!! I let loose. I said nothing. I am not the cook when I am sick. People need to realize that when I say I am sick that I am sick and I dont need blood oozing from every opening or for a limb to be cut off. If they need that, I will work those things out for them.

[Hound dog]

I'm glad you got to spend some time with Keyanna............and that you got to tell her yourself that you didn't know anything about her party. If you weren't sick and feeling so awful, I'd tell you to crash the party. LOL (but Cory and Mandy should.....now that would be interesting )

I'm so sorry you're so sick. Wth is going on woman? You've been sick for quite a while now, and I'm getting awfully worried.

((hugs))

[Dammit Janet]

I have an appt with the doc tomorrow at noon to get the findings from the bloodwork, xrays and ultrasound. I so hope something is found. Honestly, if they tell me that they dont have a clue I think I will cry. When it friggening hurts so badly to eat that I am avoiding food at all costs but I am so hungry I am ready to just eat and put up with the pain. I dont know which way to turn. I mean you can only go so long without some sort of food. I have low blood sugar so I am crabby, sweaty and I feel so weak. If I do eat, I pay for it with awful cramps and explosive number 2's. It also feels like my stomach is going to explode from the top even though I am not eating massive amounts. Im telling you, it really feels like someone took me in and gave me a gastric bypass surgery while I was asleep one night and didnt tell me!

[LittleDudesMom]

Janet, I hope you get some answers about the pain today that includes a quick solution! Let us know as soon as you get home...

Positive thoughts....

Sharon

[hearts and roses]

Janet, I hope you feel better.

Glad you were able to see Keyana at least. Lindsey is a real meanie. I think you ALL crash that party!

[StepTo2]

Janet, I too am concerned and like you I hope they find something, but preferably something they can treat easily, KWIM?

As for Lindsay... GRRRRRRR! But I am glad you got to see Keyana for a bit.

[trinityroyal]

Janet, I'm so sorry you're still feeling terrible and I hope that the doc can treat it so that you get better soon.
And how lovely that you got to spend some time with Keyana.

Lindsay is being evil, and it WILL backfire on her. When Keyana is older and understands the mind-games that Lindsay played with her and the pains she took to keep you apart, she will not be happy with Lindsay at all. I'm glad you told Keyana that you didn't hear anything about the party. Without saying anything bad about her mother, you've planted a seed that will grow questions in Keyana's mind. She will watch and remember.

Many hugs, and hope you feel better very soon.

[TeDo]

Janet, I really hope they get to the bottom of whatever is going on. Something is VERY wrong and there has to be some way to find out what. Praying for good news today.

As for the party, absolutely I would crash the party. After all, Keyana invited you all and you guys CAN'T say no to her (wink, wink) since you hardly get to see her anymore, Riiiiiiiiiiight? There is NO WAY I wouldn't be there since SHE invited you.

[upallnight]

Lindsay is seriously not inviting Keyanna's sister to her birthday party? Wow...she is an awful person, I think she's so jealous of Mackenzie. Corey needs to establish some type of parental rights. I know it's easier said than done, even if he has to find a lawyer, maybe he can make payments.

I hope all goes well at the dr. If you're too sick, stay home, but everyone else should be at Chuckie Cheese's for her birthday party, it's all about her that day. She wants you all there!

[Signorina]

Oh Janet -- I hope you feel better soon.

I would text Lindsay "Keyana's so excited about her party at C Cheese on Sat. What time should we be there? We wouldn't miss it for the world!"