I really feel for you. Our situations re: GFG and PC1 is very similar (and DW is a big Tyler fan too). I used up all my personal days and VC last year dealing with GFG issues and PC1 illnesses. I had to borrow VC from this year, come in to make up missed time, etc. But in my case my boss worked with me.
Good advice from trinity on the perf. reviews, etc. But who saves that stuff at home?
Glad you filed a complaint.
All the best to you and new H and your family. Prayers for a positive resolution to this and for baby J's recovery.