Hey, Old Timers...Remember EF and the girlfriend ?

[DDD]

What was it four or five years ago? PC/GFG "fell" for a girl that his EF had dated. EF set PC/GFG up so that some other girls
left visible hickies on him...and...EF got the girl.

EF is in jail for at least six months. He and "the girl" have two little kids that "the girl" is raising w/o support. She is
a hardworking, goodlooking, bright alcoholic who makes great bucks waitressing/barmaiding.

Why am I posting???

At 5 AM I spoke to PC/GFG who was drunk and offered him a safe
ride home. He was agreeable. When I asked where he was, he said
just drive down X street and I'll be walking there. I drove X
street three times and then drove Y and Z before returning to X
where I heard him holler "Wait Up, Mama".

He had been with "the girl". [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/ill.gif[/img]

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/3_4_103.gif[/img] I chugged coffee until around 7 because I just could
NOT believe that we are back where we were those years ago. Ugh!

He is not well enough to get kicked out yet but honestly...I am
eager to see him anywhere but here. DH and I are trying to piece
together an option for him that we can support.

I think he is another Ant........it's like regurgitating life with no progress. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/23_34_2.gif[/img] DDD

[Stella Johnson]

Oh boy... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/23_34_2.gif[/img] I am at a loss for a suggestion for a plan. Hopefully it was a one night stand. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/nono.gif[/img]

Steph

[antsmom]

oh so ant is a role model now...LOL
ant you chugged coffee not cutty??? hmmm
ant has called three times today. I see it is him on caller ID. I am not biting.

[Ephchap]

OMG, DDD. I'm sooooo sorry. I'm sure your heart sank. Ughhhh.

Sending you mega hugs,
Deb

[antsmom]

PS an idea....

while he is sleeping give him a vasectomy. I am sure you can learn how to do it online. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]

[SunnyFlorida]

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/23_34_2.gif[/img] ok you Lorena Bobbitt fans...if you figure out how to do this without a gfg noticing let me know....cuz I'm with ya!

Revisiting the same road is NOT....in the plan. Do not set a precendence here....I think I'll send some {{{sunny voodoo}}} maybe that will shake things up [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/hypnosis.gif[/img]

On the other hand...thinking of you all and shakin' my head.

[DDD]

Now...she is calling three times a day and PC/GFG is avoiding the calls. Finally he spoke to her and told her "look you and I
were both drunk and I don't remember what I said or what you said
either...it had NO meaning!"

Whoa! Harsh. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Unfortunately, he may be Billy Bad But to the world but he will
not hurt her feelings by avoiding her..I know it! Bummer. DDD

[everywoman]

"He is not well enough to get kicked out yet but honestly...I am
eager to see him anywhere but here. DH and I are trying to piece
together an option for him that we can support.

I think he is another Ant........it's like regurgitating life with no progress."


I feel the very same way 3D. It's as if they know there are other choices out there, but refuse to look into them. I told gfg today that I thought NA/AA may be a good idea. He said he will go to a meeting tomorrow. I'm not holding my breath....if he does good, if not, it is his choice.

I hadn't posted about his latest "minor in possession of alcohol" charge because it seems so same old, same old. He sees his PO this week....he will have to face the consequences!

[KFld]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ant'smom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">PS an idea....

while he is sleeping give him a vasectomy. I am sure you can learn how to do it online. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img] </div></div>

When you find that site, could you send me the link. LMAO

[antsmom]

K-it is so easy, you just make a few snips, pull out the part that looks like spaghetti,cut, tie in a knot and shove it back in there. a few stitches with a darning needle and you are done! so simple!