Oh the things our gfgs put us through. I too am thinking of you. I think calling the prison was a good idea.
TL
Oh the things our gfgs put us through. I too am thinking of you. I think calling the prison was a good idea.
TL
Me: 55, the tougher parentDH: 56wonderful guy but too easy on the kidsBoth kids adopted at birthGFG: Son 19 , adhd, odd, did not graduate, was out of the house, was back in for a short while and has been out since August and will stay out.PC: Daughger 16 , doing great, has always been an easy child.
Did not hear back from the prison today. Gfg got home about 9:30 am before her dad went to work. She starts at the the other store this next week (work). She begged for her prison letters back and told me they were so important. She then told me they came from a guy who use to be our neighbor's older daughters boyfriend. I think they even have a baby together. My daughter was about 11 when they moved away. If this guy knows who he is writing, he knows she is a minor. I told her we would not talk until dad was home and we were all together. I also told her if there was any screaming or cussing the conversation was done. She said she was going to have this inmate write us and ask permission to write her. Are you kidding me?????? Is she this delusional??????
As for her friend who was recieving the letters at his house, his mom was allowing it but wondered if she should call me. She heard I was too protective...blah blah....(thank you gfg). I asked her if she was worried about the fellon having her address? No, she said. Ok??? As for friend, yep, he was buffaloed by gfg. She is so pushy and controlling with everyone and her friends don't stand a chance when she makes up her mind. He agreed to not bring her letters anymore and write return to sender on them until we can get them stopped.
Thanks for your thoughs. I have no idea how we are going to climb this mountain.
Me- mom and teacher
DH of 26 years
PC son-24-ADHD, great kid and hard worker, no meds since early high school
GFG-daughter 17,PTSD, borderline traits, and many varied diagnosis over past 3 years. Celexa (refusing to take this now) levothyroxine (thyroid meds), trazadone
Sounds like you have covered the bases. Here's hoping she "gets it"...sigh. DDD
DH & I have raised our 25 yr.old grandson. At 14 he turned to pot & booze to cope with problems. He's a GFG#1. In 2005 he fell off a balcony, had brain surgery and has TBI effects. His recovery is very stressful. Time will tell if he ends up GFG or PC. Our GFG#2 is 21 and now lives with his GFGmom. He's ADHD, AS, BP plus. DH and I have 6 children and 11 grands. Yikes!
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