Gfg signed the release.
Likely coming back next weekend and then starting partial hospitalization. Asked if we could go get his license back. I asked if he planned on driving to see anyone he used with...oh yes...two...call them H and J.
I say no way. He says I just wanna go see H for 5 minutes. I'll meet him at the gas station near his trailer. Later he says H is letting a murderer live with him and how he talked to H from rehab...H wants to go to Celebrate Recovery with him, and how H may die without help. (cue violins)
We agreed 5 minutes. Gas station. Period. And if H wants to go to CR, it won't be in a car I own.
J is an alcoholic where gfg used a lot.
Asked gfg to seek his counselors opinion on this. You know I'll talk to him about it myself. In fact, I am going to ask that we set up house rules with their mediation before gfg is released.
The highlight of our talk....
Gfg...i just wanna make my own decisions.
Me....trouble is, I have to write the checks. When you write your own checks, then I'll stay quiet.