I'm telling you guys even before GFG#1 sees the official letter. He was approved for Disability. Not only that, it goes back to 2005. Yep, its been a long, long stressful road but soon he will be independent and DH and I will be able to drop any expenses for his maintenance. Lordy even a little financial help will be of benefit to us.
Yes, I am afraid that he will blow his money. No, I am not going to try to control it. I am about as detached as I expect to be in my lifetime and if he implodes I'll just hope and pray that it doesn't impact my determination to limit stress for the sake of my health.
Right?????? Yea, right. I honestly didn't think he would get it because (I guess) I still see my PC/GFG when I look at him and figured the Appeal Court would too. Actually reading the full eight page report with all the mega experts that we took him to after his TBI and others that I've never met..it makes me sadly convinced that he really is not able to function adequately. Weird the emotions I'm feeling.
I'm not telling anyone including DH. Otoh...many of you have cried with me over all these years and I want you to know first. DDD