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    Re: IEP question re transfer of sd

    Those are questions I'm trying to find answers to, B. The one thing I am sure of- I have never lost parental rights or had the right to them questioned. This PO is overzealous though- and that's an understatement. However, the sd will know I have parental rights that they have to maintain- it's just that PO's ignorance may throw gfg under the bus in his efforts to show all his authority as a PO. I'm hoping they (PO and super) find some other kid that catches their attention soon so they back their radar off mine.

    Example- PO doesn't even have objectives of gh written yet, which is his job and my and gfg's right to know. But he was jumping up saying he'd call sd to schedule reenrollment hearing/iep meeting (something I have experience in since gfg went thru this before). Then I "mentioned" to attny while PO was in earshot that it shure is a good thing they are having mtg next week to determine which gh gfg would go to- otherwise NO ONE would know WHICH SD to call to schedule that mtg. PO rushed away mumbling something about "OMG- we have to determine sd so this school can get records out". LOL! But the parole plan and goals are not even written. *sigh* Attny chuckled as soon as we got out of the door.

    When I told PO and super that while they have authority to write parole plan, they don't have authority to take over gfg's IEP b/c it's protected by fed law (OK- I'm assuming it still is), he whispered to MY attny, "who's on an IEP team". Geez....One thing I do know- while gfg is incarcerated, he goes to a school that is under the state authority of Dept of Correctional Education and they work hand-in-hand to be alongside and meet the same standards as the regular Dept of Educ.; they do NOT fall under DJJ so I have the same parental rights, etc, with them- no one from djj staff, proper, comes to IEP mtgs where gfg goes to school while incarcerated. There's a typical Spec Ed director and everything else. I don't see any way on earth that I could have LESS parental rights in this situation. I would fight that if they claimed it.
    “I know God will not give me anything I can’t handle. I just wish that He didn’t trust me so much.” - Mother Teresa.

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    Re: IEP question re transfer of sd

    Wow, all the information you know.... sounds like you have solid ground to stand on.... every post I...yeah, me non-violent Dee, want to go punch this guy in the face.
    me: 48, sngl adoptive mom, SLP, now SAHM
    son/gfg 15! , gottcha day 2y10mo, ASD, acquired brain injury (surgery at age 2), borderline cognitive, anxiety, adhd, temporal lobe seizures, attachment issues. Symptoms: severe anxeity, fight or flight, impulsive, verbal and physical aggression, LPD, social issues, obsessive/perseverative/compulsive/tics. Meds: Ritalin, Lyrica, Clonidine/Catapres, Benadryl, Lithium-not helping, going off now: Zyprexa...seems good so far

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    Re: IEP question re transfer of sd

    Apparently, You have been in a situation to have signed for your child's IEP. Is this something you request from the school principal, or is this court ordered? and does it have to be agreed on by both parents - My DH has parental rights to schoolwork, seeing as he is Wheezy's biodad. However, would we bring up the IEP at a PPT?
    Being in not-so-great standings with Wheezy's mother, who oddly (is not even present on Wheezys birth cirtificate), however has full control over school procedings, does she have to Okay the IEP? or can we order one ourselves. biomom - Sid does not have the want or know-how to care for her son's dissabilities, therefore, I would not be reaching when I say she will most likely decline, even if it is in Wheezy's best interest.
    "Jessie" (22yo) ADD, Anxiety, PTSD Meds: Prozac
    "Woody" (31yo) ADD, Anxiety, PTSD(i think) Meds: Suboxone
    S- "Sid" - bio-mom - (30yo) - Naracistic personalatity disorder, Manipulitive, Conceded, jaded, has children full-time.
    Kids
    J- "Buzz"
    - (9yo) - Born premature, recovered from any dissabilities.
    E- "wheezy" - (8yo) - Born premature. Today - ADD, ADHD, hearing aids (aka- his ears) Meds: to be cont.

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    Re: IEP question re transfer of sd

    K, your PO bugs me more than Janet's relative by marriage Buck does and I want to put a hex on Buck so his parts fall off. I want it to turn green and rot off on your PO. Bet that would keep him a lot busier than his charges would!!!!
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