Must be it. I know I did right but it still hurts that they do not speak to me. I sent my daughter a txt and a card and left a message on her answering machine. As for my son I can't get to him to tell him how much I care because his girlfriend intercepts everything. She is a control freak. Before he moved out our house I found a diary where she said she hated me and was going to do everything in her power to make sure that my son had nothing to do with me. I have no clue why she didn't like me. I just met the girl when my son moved back in with me when his dad did not approve of her. I never questioned why he did not speak to me for a year and half when he was at his dads. I just welcomed him home like he was gone for the night. Hard to say what she is telling him I could be saying. I am serious, she would even follow him to the bathroom. And when he had a job and she didnt she would sit in the car while he worked and he worked nights. Finally she got a job at the same place he did. Then she got layed off and he still had his job and she made him quit. They moved to another state and moved in with a man as old as me if not older that they met from a online video game called world of warcraft. They have been in that other state for a year now. I saw on their facebook page that they were in the area for a visit for 2 weeks but never came by to see me. She commented that family only they were visiting. On his facebook page he has his father listed as Saddam Hussein.