Stop the World, History has been made!!!
Nichole just apologized! Sincerely. She has NEVER done it on her own without prompting. Wow. Of course she'd attempted to do it via fb chat but I was doing homework online........and didn't notice before her internet cut out. Exbf is who drew my attention to it.
I think she paid attention to, and honestly thought about what I said! It's a miracle!!
I am not getting my hopes up yet. She's still at bff's dh's house and under his infuence, but it's a start.
AND exbf said they started talking (evidently bff's dh wasn't allowed along) really talking for the first time since this whole mess started. Ex bf said she wants to get back together. He says there is a part of him that wants to keep on moving and a larger part that wants to try again. But there are things she has to do first. 1. being move out of that darn house and get away from Jerk Man. (can't blame him there) I'm guessing another condition is to go back into treatment and onto her meds. He didn't say that but I wouldn't be surprised. And can't say I don't agree. He wants to take it nice and slow. I told him that's a smart idea.
He said she acting like herself for the 1st time last night and today. I think that's a good sign.
Fingers crossed and some prayers please that she continues to keep her eyes open and make good decisions.
Like I said..........I'm counting on nothing until it happens, though. As long as she's living in jerk mans house she's under his influence and manipulation. She wrote on her fb page last night that she was major POed........it might have been at Jerk Man this time.