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  1. 11-30-2009 01:30 PM #1
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    T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    T.ough O.ld B.road E.meritus or NOT T.ough O.ld B.road E.meritus....(Witz said it first here...but)

    I'm beginning to believe Shakespeare may have um...you know, had something else in mind when he said his famous line.

    By the way...I'm leaning more towards T.O.B.E. EVERY SINGLE DAY.
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  3. 11-30-2009 01:46 PM #2
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    Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    Definitely T.O.B.E. - and after last week, preferably with an unlisted phone # and no forwarding address!
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    Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    Yup. T.O.B.E. That's me!
    Me: 43 yrs old "Aspie-lite".
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    Step-D: 34 yr old girl. Growing up, at last!
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    Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    Definitely T.O.B.E. Me too. And getting tougher all the time.
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    Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    Well, I for one, feel wiser and freer of late.
    Perhaps I too am getting "tougher" all the time.
    I'm just not getting older. hee hee
    Come to think of it....I feel a little YOUNGER.
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    Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    I want T.O.B.E. all that I can be!
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    Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    TOBE...........we cannot have put all of our strength, resources, and most of our soul into NOT. It will come to fruition sister. It has to.

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    Angry Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    I'm currently in transformation from Not tobe to TOBE....

    I'll tell ya this......moving with no fwd address, phone or existence is NOT going to be hard.
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  10. 12-01-2009 02:19 PM #9
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    Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    Have we heard from the kid?
    Janet, 49,BP, BPD, Arthritis,degenerative disc disease, Anxiety, Fibro,lamictal, topamax, & xanaxER, Ambien
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    Middle Son (J) 27. ADHD Success Story, works with the sheriffs dept now
    Youngest son (C) 25, TDD. Severe ADHD Impulsive type

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    Re: T.O.B.E. or NOT T.O.B.E.

    We DID.....and we (DF and I) rapidly got out the DUCT tape and SHUT OUR OWN mouths. MMM mmmmm mmm and then mmmmm mmm mmm mm m mmm.

    Oh I forgot to tell you - HE BROUGHT HOME A new PUPPY -
    Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom.”
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