Thank you so much Hound Dog. Your information on Leukemia testing helped take the blinders off of Ant.
When I got home last night, I told Ant I had something to tell him. I said that I have a good friend who is a nurse that told me that you can not test of leukemia with a Spinal Tap. You can only test through blood and marrow. His response was "Really?". My response was "Yes. And can I say something else?" I get a nod, so I said "I think you are getting played." And he went downstairs.
Ten minutes later, he comes upstairs saying "I hate feeling stupid and getting played. Could you take me over to J and baby Nevaeh's?" So, for the first time in 12 days, Ant left the house.
Of course when I tell DH about this, his response is "Well, now we won't see him anymore."