so GFG II has been a sailor when it comes to his mouth. I took him and a friend to the pool today and he announced after an hour it was time to go, it was hot so I was fine with that, but he mumbled something and when I asked him to repeat it he went off, "F this" and "f that" in front of his friend and all the other people sitting with in ear shot. I swear there are days I'd like to smack him, but I know it would be a brawl, and yes, it is the worng thing to do.
Once home I sent the friend home and made GFG II come inside. I told him we were not going to Growth Group (once a week church group, he has friends there) due to his disrespectful behavior. He lost it and carried on for a good hour. It seems no matter what I try to do, reward or consequence, there's no off switch to his blatant disrespect!
sorry venting, it's been a long weekend