Yeah...sigh. He's actually made some real positive changes. Hasn't been ranting and raving, trying to be affectionate, etc. I think it wigged him out when I left. He didn't think I'd do it.
I spent a couple of days in the hospital which gave me time to get MY head on straight and time for us to have long talks over the phone. I told him that if he couldn't make these changes that my friend from Vegas was going to drive up and get me and the rest of my stuff and go back home. Well, my 'friend' is the guy I was seeing when Kev and I first seperated for those first 4 months while Kev moved here and I stayed in Vegas. Kev knows about him...doesn't really care, but he also doesn't want me to leave.
In the end I said I'd give him one last shot but if he reverts to old behaviors...I WILL go to Vegas and stay for good.
It's like Days of Our Lives, for Christ's sake.
Deb
I spent a couple of days in the hospital which gave me time to get MY head on straight and time for us to have long talks over the phone. I told him that if he couldn't make these changes that my friend from Vegas was going to drive up and get me and the rest of my stuff and go back home. Well, my 'friend' is the guy I was seeing when Kev and I first seperated for those first 4 months while Kev moved here and I stayed in Vegas. Kev knows about him...doesn't really care, but he also doesn't want me to leave.
In the end I said I'd give him one last shot but if he reverts to old behaviors...I WILL go to Vegas and stay for good.
It's like Days of Our Lives, for Christ's sake.
Deb