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  1. ksm replied to the thread Pg update.

    It's going to be a very tough lesson... But the worst will be the hardest for the child. No one deserves to lose the dad lottery. Ksm

    Sep 19, 2019 at 7:20 PM
  2. ksm rated WiseChoices's post Useful in the thread Pg update.

    Yeah, she is trying to tie herself to this sick man who has a track record of abandoning his children and his responsibility to them. We...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 7:18 PM
  3. ksm replied to the thread Pg update.

    Blindsided - tomorrow I'm driving to a larger town to meet a group of friends for coffee and chatting. This was planned before I hot the...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 7:17 PM
  4. ksm replied to the thread Pg update.

    AppleCori... Exactly what I told her! It the first two babies don't have an intact family...what makes her think hers will? Ksm

    Sep 19, 2019 at 7:14 PM
  5. ksm replied to the thread Pg update.

    And a funny/not funny story about her boyfriend. He is 21. We went to a medical clinic that has an office that helps people apply for state...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 5:32 PM
  6. ksm replied to the thread Pg update.

    She got a medical card! I figured we would have to wait, but the office finished it up and printed out a letter to use! She called WIC...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 5:00 PM
  7. JayPee rated BusynMember's post Friendly in the thread Enabling or not?.

    I do care what my kids think of me. That is why this is so hard. I know I'm not supposed to care, but I do.

    Sep 19, 2019 at 4:24 PM
  8. JayPee rated Copabanana's post Winner in the thread Enabling or not?.

    It doesn't matter why you do it or don't stop. This self-examination leads us to self-punishment and paralysis. The important thing, to...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 4:22 PM
  9. JayPee rated Albatross's post Friendly in the thread Enabling or not?.

    Wise, that was beautiful. What a loving way to put things. I am saving your post for my dark moments. It’s a good question why we...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 4:16 PM
  10. JayPee rated WiseChoices's post Winner in the thread Enabling or not?.

    JayPee, I so feel where you are at having lived for my childrens' love and approval for so long. As I continue to work on myself with...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 4:15 PM
  11. JayPee rated Blindsided's post Friendly in the thread Enabling or not?.

    I haven't looked at others comments, but here is mine. Never reward bad behavior, period. That is regardless if their is a modicum of...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 4:12 PM
  12. RN0441 rated WiseChoices's post Winner in the thread Is it easier with multiple children?.

    I think asking that question avoids what might help you the most: acceptance The relationship with your son is what it is right now. I...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 2:20 PM
  13. RN0441 replied to the thread Good things are happening.

    Thanks to all for your positive feedback. He did test clean today at home this afternoon but says he will continue to drink water and...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 2:19 PM
  14. JayPee rated WiseChoices's post Winner in the thread This is hard...why is this so hard?.

    I heard an AA speaker last night say that he was abusive to his parents for years. And in turn told himself (and others) the story he...

    Sep 19, 2019 at 1:19 PM
  15. JayPee rated Copabanana's post Winner in the thread Enabling or not?.

    You know he has not changed. You knew it before you opened that email. I think that a changed son will not arrive through an email....

    Sep 19, 2019 at 1:16 PM
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