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  1. pasajes4

    Back for Support

    I have not been on here for several years. My journey began when my son was a pre-teen. He is now 26. He is mentally ill and abuses drugs. Our relationship is non existent. I fully accept that I more than likely contributed to his difficulties even though that was never my intention ( hindsight...
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    Update on Son

    My son continues to live the drug lifestyle. He is now living in a homeless encampment and smoking meth. He calls from time to time to try to guilt me into a place to stay and money. Not hsppening. He knows about the accident and my injuries, but has never asked how I am doing. It is and always...
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    Checking In

    I have not been here for a long time. I was involved in a major motorcycle accident in May. My left ankle was severed and had a huge open wound. I spent 2 months in the hospital and in rehab. I am home and still recovering from the injuries. I hope everyone is doing as well as can be ecpected...
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    Gratitude

    I do not stop by very often anymore. This is a good thing. I am in a good place even though my son is not. I am eternally grateful for the wisdom and encouragement I have received from so many members on this site. I thank each and everyone of you who have held my hand and listened to my...
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    I am a hypocrite!

    I spent years deriding my son's use of marijuana. I lambasted him from one end of the universe to the other. I threw away all of his paraphernalia to the extent that if I had kept it, I could have opened my own head shop. I have been dealing with chronic pain for years. Due to a kidney...
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    In Black and White

    It was one thing to be told that the man I called father was not my biological father. I did not get too emotional about that information. It was another story when I saw it in black and white and from my "father". My brother found my father's will written a few month's before his death. We had...
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    Mother

    My mother is slipping away. She is spilling all of her deepest darkest secrets. This morning I learned that I am not my fathers child. She got pregnant with me after my father was stationed else where. It does answer the question why I look so different from my siblings and why my father had...
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    GEESH

    Son called Him: Mom I had an accident on my bike. I dislocated my shoulder. I need money for my prescription. Me: What kind of medication? Him: Narcon Me: Not happening Him: I need 350 for surgery. Me: I need a Dr. that only charges 350 for surgery. Hmm that is how much it costs to stay...
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    Negative Emotions

    My mother is now on hospice. I spend a great deal of time at her home doing what I can during this time. I am surprised at the amount of anger I am feeling. This is the only place I feel comfortable talking about this. My mother was a closet alcoholic for many years. Growing up my father was...
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    Hospice

    I just signed papers for my 92 year old mother to go on hospice. I found her on the floor of her den 2 weeks ago. No serious injuries, but she is confused and can no longer able to walk without a walker and assistance. Her blood pressure is fluctuating from dangerously high to extremely low...
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    Update

    Son was arrested for violating a no trespass order for my property and for damaging my property. He went to court on Monday. The prosecutor contacted me and as a result of that conversation he was given probation with a laundry list of conditions including a no contact/ protective order. I guess...
  12. pasajes4

    Merry Christmas

    May we all have a peaceful day. If you are celebrating today, enjoy the people you are with. :forchristmas:
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    Medical Question

    I over did it while on vacation. Lots of stairs and walking for hours at a time. My legs are sore all the way to the bones. I have not been able to get much relief with over the counter pain relievers. Any suggestions would be very much appreciated.
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    My Son's Radar

    I am certian that I am not the only parent that has experienced this with their child. I am due to leave for Baltimore Monday morning. My son does mot know my plans, but some how he must have sensed that I was going to do something good for myself. I got a call from a mental hospital telling me...
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    Long Night

    Son was released from the mental hospital last night. He wanted the clothes that he left on the porch when he broke my door down. They were not there. I thought he had come back and taken them, I guess the contractor fixing my door thought it was a bag of trash and threw them out. He decided I...
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    I DID IT!!!!

    My sister has lived in Baltimore since 1980. I have never been to visit her. There are a thousand excuses for not going, too far to drive, work, money, afraid to fly.....the list goes on. The biggest reason has been the false need to be "available" in case I was needed. I bit the bullet and...
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    Latest

    Son called from a mental hospital. I truly believe he needs to be there for a long period of care. They probably will not keep him there longer than 72 hours. I feel this is just another form of manipulation on his end. The brief "conversation" was him screaming at me that I need to let him come...
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    POLICE

    My son tried to break into my house this morning. He broke the door frame and the door cannot be closed and locked. I am so sick of all of this garbage.
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    Police

    My son tried to break into my house this afternoon. I was at home with my daughter and grandson. He was totally out of control. I was on hold for 911 for 10 min. before they took my call. I now have a splintered door frame. They finally arrived and took him away.
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    COURT

    My son was supposed to go to court yesterday. He did not go. Now he has a bench warrent. His reason he did not have the money. He was told to go and explain his situation. They would have worked with him. Once again he listened to his so called friends,
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