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  1. sooooo tired

    Out of answers

    My daughter was out of my life for 5 years. Because of her past behavior problems. We just reunited 8 months ago. Her attitude with me has changed. She has asked me to forgive Her for the problems In the past. She has a 10 year old son who Is so precious to me. She does take good care of him...
  2. sooooo tired

    Advice please

    I am back in my daughters life after 5 years. She has made some improvements. She fought for full custody of my grandson and has got him in a good Christian School She has been taking good care of him as far as His health goes and he seems to be doing very well I can tell she still has some...
  3. sooooo tired

    Advice please

    I am back in my daughters life after 5 years. She has made some improvements. She fought for full custody of my grandson and has got him in a good Christian School She has been taking good care of him as far as His health goes and he seems to be doing very well I can tell she still has some...
  4. sooooo tired

    Back for advice!

    After 5 years of not seeing my daughter I went to her Sons birthday party. She acted like she was genuinely glad to see me. I havent seen or heard from her since. That's been 1 month ago. Do I make a move or wait for her to make one . I would love to have a relationship with my Grandson but I...
  5. sooooo tired

    So nervous

    Well I haven't seen my daughter in 5 years. But now my other daughter has started contact with her again. I know its getting close to a reconnection of some sort. When I think about all the drama and all the anxiety I use to deal with I shutter. My grandson wants to see me so bad and I do miss...
  6. sooooo tired

    Shes back in the picture

    Well after 5 years of no contact my oldest reached out to her sister. I have had no contact yet. I have to be very cautious about this. My grandson is 9 and I have missed him terribly. When my daughter goes to see her he begs to see me. We were always very close. My daughter went to her home for...
  7. sooooo tired

    Just want some advice

    I havent been on here for quite a while. Just don't know how to handle my situation. My oldest has been out of my life for 5 years. Recently one of her friends passed away and my younger daughter reached out To her. So they have been in touch. I told middle daughter that's fine. But if she...
  8. sooooo tired

    Some things never change!!😪

    I havent visited this site for quite a while. I guess because my story never changes. I still haven't spoken to my eldest daughter in close to 5 years now. I havent seen my grandkids in close to 2 years. I feel guilty because as the mom I feel like its my job to try to reunite with them but then...
  9. sooooo tired

    I just needed to visit my friends

    Alot has happened in the last couple of years. I got married to a wonderful man on 9/28/19. Which was really a gift from god. My problems with my older daughter still exist. I havent seen or spoken to her in close to 3 years. Sometimes it's a relief and sometimes it's my nightmare. I feel I will...
  10. sooooo tired

    Just need some opinions

    I have been doing very well since I last posted on here. Things still aren't resolved with my Difficult Child. I havent been in touch with her going on almost 3 years now. It bothers me but I am so much happier not having to deal with her abuse. I have been engaged to a wonderful man for two years now. The...
  11. sooooo tired

    just felt like venting

    I havent visited this site in awhile mostly because it reminds me of the past. I havent talked to my daughter in over two years now. Though my life is sooooo much calmer and I am very happy. I am going to retire the end of September and am marrying an awesome man. You would think my life would...
  12. sooooo tired

    can't shake this down feeling

    Merry Christmas everyone !!! I so want to enjoy this holiday season, but the closer it gets I get more and more depressed about my daughter and grandson. Even though it is so much better not having to deal with my daughter I also wonder if I will ever Have any kind of relationship with her...
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    Merry Christmas everyone !!!

    I hope everyone is having a good holiday season. I know it is really hard for some of us to get through yet another holiday with all the thoughts about our Dysfunctional kids. With me it is the same battle with my daughter and grandson. Since I have someone in my life that dearly loves me and is...
  14. sooooo tired

    Just wanna here from my friends

    OK so Ive got this detachment thing down. Im going on a year and a half without talking to my daughter. I am very happy in fact I just got engaged to a wonderful man! But the old familiar guilty feelings sneak in at times and I wonder....where she is what is she doing is she ok? And since Ive...
  15. sooooo tired

    Hi everyone.......

    It has been a busy summer so far. I just wanted to see how everyone is doing. I have been dating a wonderful man for one year now. He is so good to me. I still have my lows about my daughter. I havent spoken to her in a year and a half. In one way it makes me sad. But my life is so much calmer...
  16. sooooo tired

    I guess I'll never understand !!!

    Even though my life is so much calmer without my daughter in my life, she still has a way of making me feel like a really bad person! I know what everyone will tell me, and I know I shouldn't do it ,but my curiosity gets to me sometimes and i get on her facebook page. I was with my boyfriends...
  17. sooooo tired

    starting a new life

    I haven't been on here for quite a while, but I wanted to let everyone know my progress. I have not seen or talked to my Difficult Child for almost a year now. She texted me a nasty little note a few months back with her usual accusations of being a crappy mom and calling me names, but i just ignored it. She...
  18. sooooo tired

    touching base

    I guess it is a good thing that I havent been here for awhile, but I do have some concerns that I want some feedback about. I havent spoken to my daughter since april and although it is better for me, I wish things could be different. She also hasnt seen her son till recently, and for some...
  19. sooooo tired

    shes at it again!!!

    Well my daughter left her 4 year old son with his dad 4 months ago and has had no contact with him. The poor little guy said to me ....I dont know where my mom is, my dad dont know where my mom is, shes just living somewhere!! I have him at least one day on the weekend. I am skipping this...
  20. sooooo tired

    Almost too quite

    So I still haven't spoken with my daughter since April.....I am so much calmer when she isn't stirring up drama, but I guess I need reassurance that it is just ok for me to not talk to her. Sometimes my inner mom rears her head and says This isn't right for you to not be speaking with your...
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