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Its obvious that only when the addict is ready, will they stop. We rack our brains trying to solve this. We believe they have mental problems when "some" really dont. I think some of us can handle it better if we think its mental. Their brains are just messed up from drugs. No drugs, no...

Im having a bad day already and it hasnt even started. Woke up with anxiety over sons future, but mire so about my granddaughter in another state. Shes not in any danger to call cps, but i dont like some of the things i hear. Like, i was late for 2nd day if achool cuz mom was drunk last nught...

Because of his ways, my hubby and i are left with trying to deal with baby mama drama. He couldnt just be normal so we could have our granddaughter in our life every month instead shes in another state. Thanks to him we cant have normal family times together. Thanks to him we get to wonder all...

Doing good. Working out. Signed up for na classes and a job in prison. Have to remember not to get my hopes up, plus i wonder if hes thinking that if he goes to na classes , get job, maybe mom will come visit me or send money. Dont trust him.

Dont understand why addicts will accept help from others and change, than from their own family. Never will get that and will always be angry about it

I am job hunting so i can get money so i can make the kinda life i want. Wish me luck!

Got letter from son in prison. Says he is working in his na book and going to start na support group. I dont care. Ive spent 15yrs trying with him, i dont care anymore. Imma do me!

That was a fun month. Im mad and sad my son wasnt here to share in her visit. Drugs and stealing and prison were more important. Makes me mad cause i didnt raise him to be so .......... Anyway, now to get a job myself.

Why i dont write to him very much while hes in prison. I told him some days i am so angry its best i dont write anything. And some days i wont answer phone calls either. I am working on it but dont know how long it will take. He said it sucks. I said well, you did this, so........

I have my granddaughter for this month. Parents call her hyper. I notice all the moving about is because shes holding her pee for as long as she can. And then dribbles alittle. I have a strong nose and can smell it. Shes 9

Got some from son in prison. Really dont feel anything while reading them anymore. He calls once a wk and talks about the same thing he writes. Not interested in daily prison life. Did that for four years the first time. Took my granddaughter up north to a deer farm. Was nice. She goes back...

My counseling isnt going how i had planned, and to top it off she says to me, when your son gets out of prison "you" need to get him into long term counseling. Well, its not up to me to do anything. I spent 15yrs trying that already! I took him to rehab 2x. Hes 31yrs old, i am not doing...

I have her for the month. I cant deal with the changing of mind. Yesterday she says i want to go skating tomorrow ok tomarrow comes and no. Same with going to deer farm, going with me to get dogs nails trimmed, going to an arts class. She says either yes or no then hrs later or next day changes...

Yet we on here have been stressed for years beause of them, and i would say most of us don't abuse drugs or alcohol. So that excuse is lame. They need to pull on some big girl/boy pants and deal with life like the rest of us wo drugs.

Few weeks ago i sent a letter to son in prison. Told him i reached the end of my rope. That once again im in therapy. And the two people who need it most dont go. Him for his problems and hubby for being unaffectionate. And i really dont feel like speaking to him much. Of course he understood...

Sometimes i get comfort from this forum, then other times i get so mad at those drug addicts relapes and get sad and dont come on for few days.

We leave early tomorrow morning to drive 12hrs to get her and bring her back to AZ to stay with us for the month of july. Excited and sad, cuz stupid son, her dad is in prison, again, and wont be here. I worked soo hard to keep them bonded thru his bs. Trying to not dwell on the sad part. Thats...

I tried to email, but site wont let me. I was thinking a chat room would be nice for us weary parents who cant sleep

He chose drugs over his family and daughter. Again. Dont rhink i can forgive him for that

Is that we parents get a break! Peace and quite for that time.