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So I took some time off from my sons problems back in January when he did the unthinkable and moved in with his addict father. It lasted only a month and ended about the way I figured it would and he came home. He was working but still smoking a lot of pot and being disrespectful. Well fast...

Well since my son moved out the beginning of January. He moved in with his addict father. He went on his own we did not throw him out and we told him he could come back if it didn’t work out. Well starting the day that he moved he has not treating me very well, yelling at me almost evertime I...

I have not posted in a while, not a whole lot has changed with my son but it seems a lot is changing with me. Since starting alanon in January I am finally feeling like I have detached from my son for the most part. He is still living at home and following the house rules (which isn’t hard...

I have spent sooo much time trying to change my older difficult child, I have used control and manipulation to try to change him into what I think he should be. But really, what do I know? He has always been on his own path and had his own ideas no matter what I think about it. This power...

So it has been about 3 weeks since my son lost his job and he is not doing much to look for a new one. Instead he is hanging with friends getting stoned, I have noticed the last 6 months or so that his pot use has increased and of course his motivation has all but disappeared. He dropped two of...

Apparently he was too slow at performing one of the tasks that he had to do. He said that he was told by someone else that he was doing fine and he is really upset about it. Now he is talking about joining the military. I use to pray that he would not choose to join but all things considered I...

my brother was admitted to the hospital a couple days ago after vomiting for 48 hours straight. After waiting and waiting to hear what was going on I decided to call the hospital and try to speak to his nurse to find out what was going on with him. They are pretty sure he is in withdrawal...

Emotional intoxication occurs when personal conflicts and emotions directly affect our physical and psychological well being. Emotional intoxication manifests in symptoms like irritability, depression, emotional instability, and fatigue. Anyone ever hear this term? I heard it yesterday on a...

Does anyone here use Intherooms.com? It is a website where you can attend video meetings for aa, al Anon, coda etc... I just joined a few days ago and am trying to figure it all out. I’m still planning on attending local face to face meetings but that it would be good for when the weather...

so I have been learning a lot from this forum and from reading some good books and I have come to the conclusion that I need to gets serious about my own issues if I ever want to be happy. Recently I have decided that maybe I should tell my Difficult Child that come spring it is time for him to look for his...

Nothing new has come up but I’m feeling soooo angry today. Truth be told I have been angry I think I have just been calling it something else that seemed kinder or made more sense like afraid or sad. Anything sounds better then royally pi#$ed but that is what I am. I am mad at my son for...

My son is 19 years old and living at home. One of my biggest struggles is realizing what is my business and what is not. Now I know that I have a say as to anything that goes on in my home but is that it? I know he smokes pot regulary and I have a feeling lately that something else is going on...

so this morning my son and I went to have his snow tires put on. We bought him the tires because this will be his first winter driving and I felt like he needed them as much for my peace of mind as anything. It ended up costing $76 because the rims they were on didn’t fit so they needed to be...

my son is 19 yeas old and still living at home. I feel like he holds a major grudge against me for some reason. His dad is an addict and he has been raised by myself and my husband his step father. He works and is talking about starting classes at community college. The problem is that he is...