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10 Days Since I Kicked him out - so far so good.
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<blockquote data-quote="SeaGenieTx" data-source="post: 664423" data-attributes="member: 18773"><p>Ok I sent a short text to him a couple of hours ago telling him I loved him, hope he was ok. He didn't respond. </p><p></p><p>Sent one more text about 30 minutes ago saying "Ignoring me is not hurting or punishing me, your choices = your fate. You are where you are in life because of your choices. Be good (his name), I love you."</p><p></p><p>I know he will be in town all week because there is some concert this weekend he was talking about that he just could not miss. I'm putting it out of my mind now and glad that tomorrow is Monday. At work my mind stays clear and busy and I don't worry as much. I am going to be on vacation all next week - I'm thinking of taking a little 2-day trip to Florida to go sit on the beach and talk to God (and drink mojitos). </p><p></p><p>All I know is I've tried with this kid and nothing works - he is on a mission to beat me and prove me wrong. Drugs have totally changed him. He doesn't even care about his beloved cat who is getting old and she cries for him. She goes in his room and howls, carries things out of his room and drops them in my room. I have been comforting her and now she just stays by my side. He doesn't miss me or his cat, hasn't asked for his clothes. It's a death I have to accept.</p><p></p><p>If he does every contact me (and you guys say he will) I don't know if I will even want to talk to him. Now I'm just mad, angry, disgusted, embarrassed that I raised a son who turned out like this.</p><p></p><p>I'm mentally exhausted - I've got to give myself a break. THANK YOU for listening to me and offering your advice. Tanya M. and SeekingPeace - thank you! xoxo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeaGenieTx, post: 664423, member: 18773"] Ok I sent a short text to him a couple of hours ago telling him I loved him, hope he was ok. He didn't respond. Sent one more text about 30 minutes ago saying "Ignoring me is not hurting or punishing me, your choices = your fate. You are where you are in life because of your choices. Be good (his name), I love you." I know he will be in town all week because there is some concert this weekend he was talking about that he just could not miss. I'm putting it out of my mind now and glad that tomorrow is Monday. At work my mind stays clear and busy and I don't worry as much. I am going to be on vacation all next week - I'm thinking of taking a little 2-day trip to Florida to go sit on the beach and talk to God (and drink mojitos). All I know is I've tried with this kid and nothing works - he is on a mission to beat me and prove me wrong. Drugs have totally changed him. He doesn't even care about his beloved cat who is getting old and she cries for him. She goes in his room and howls, carries things out of his room and drops them in my room. I have been comforting her and now she just stays by my side. He doesn't miss me or his cat, hasn't asked for his clothes. It's a death I have to accept. If he does every contact me (and you guys say he will) I don't know if I will even want to talk to him. Now I'm just mad, angry, disgusted, embarrassed that I raised a son who turned out like this. I'm mentally exhausted - I've got to give myself a break. THANK YOU for listening to me and offering your advice. Tanya M. and SeekingPeace - thank you! xoxo [/QUOTE]
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