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10 Days Since I Kicked him out - so far so good.
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<blockquote data-quote="Joyfullyme" data-source="post: 664891" data-attributes="member: 19400"><p>SeaGenie, I think you are doing great! It is ok to NOT have contact with him for a bit if it helps you get clear on what YOU deserve in your life: peace, a peaceful home, respect from others, etc. Lack of contact is not lack of love and it will most likely change when things are better. When he is in a healthier place, he will reach out because you are his mom and he DOES love you and will truly realize that in his sober, healthy moments.</p><p></p><p>If it makes YOU feel better, then send those texts "I love you" to keep the door of communication open, but only when you feel ready and you feel strong enough. You have EVERY RIGHT to create space around yourself and fill it with self care and self love and move your boundaries just a little further away so that others do not trample you.</p><p></p><p>I hope you have a blissful time on your beach with your prayers and mojitos! I pray with wine! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/laughing.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":laughing:" title="laughing :laughing:" data-shortname=":laughing:" /> Hugs!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Joyfullyme, post: 664891, member: 19400"] SeaGenie, I think you are doing great! It is ok to NOT have contact with him for a bit if it helps you get clear on what YOU deserve in your life: peace, a peaceful home, respect from others, etc. Lack of contact is not lack of love and it will most likely change when things are better. When he is in a healthier place, he will reach out because you are his mom and he DOES love you and will truly realize that in his sober, healthy moments. If it makes YOU feel better, then send those texts "I love you" to keep the door of communication open, but only when you feel ready and you feel strong enough. You have EVERY RIGHT to create space around yourself and fill it with self care and self love and move your boundaries just a little further away so that others do not trample you. I hope you have a blissful time on your beach with your prayers and mojitos! I pray with wine! :laughing: Hugs! [/QUOTE]
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