This will be the 4th time now that the school has called at the same time during the day (right before school lets out) telling me difficult child has wet himself and needs picked up. I think he's trying to get out of riding the bus. The bus causes quite a bit of anxiety for him and my husband won't go pick him up even though he gets off work in time to do so. husband says that he shouldn't have to pick him up, that he should ride the bus. UMPH!! Please Vote: 1) husband should pick him up to reduce difficult child's stress. 2) Take extra pants for him to change into and make him ride the bus.