I had suspected that he was stealing after $80 in quarters from the jar went missing over a 2 month period. But I couldn't prove it and actually suspected his 15/yo sister. But I just got a call from the school that he was flashing around a large amount of money and one of the bills was a $50. Last night I broke a $100 bill and got a $50 and a $20 as change. His father and I are divorced but he has been stealing from his father as well. My first reaction is to scream and ground him but that doesn't work and he has such a temper he ends up breaking stuff in my house. So then I thought maybe I would try the "disappointed" route. the "Guilt" route. What should I do? I was brought up knowing stealing was wrong and I never did it. I don't even know where to start with this.