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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 721101" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>The generational thing could be because grandpa molested dad who molested son. Actually, our child perped on both a little girl and a little boy. He held a knife to them and made the 4 and 6 year old have sex, but also did it to them himself. Then he said he was The Devil and very powerful and that if they told anyone he could light the house on fire and kill everyone. He perped for three years. I feel so guilty, but we had no clue.</p><p></p><p>We (husband and I) had told both little ones to always let us know if anybody touched them. We thought we had it covered. We were very close. All of us.</p><p></p><p>In the end, they felt so powerless with this boy that they believed he would kill us if they told on Boy so they did not.</p><p></p><p>This is a very touchy subject. It is one of those things where we rarely know the specifics...why, was this the only time, can he learn to control it, etc. There are no good answers. My sin had been in five foster homes before us. By his admission, he had molested younger kids, evrn infants, since he was five years old. He was not caught until age 13. In our home. He had the outward veneer of a sweet, innocent child just looking for love and we gave h</p><p></p><p>I think, rather than genetic, this is fue to generational molestation. My two kids who were molested are adults now. Theu both know they wereolested, but neither child can remember it happening. Fortinately, both kids got excellent therapy and are doing really well.</p><p></p><p>Please...take the younger ones for help too. Even if he didnt touch them, this is a trauma to know ehat their brother did.</p><p></p><p>You certainly can support your son whether you stay eith SO or not, but dont downplay how serious this is and dont let him around younger kids.</p><p></p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 721101, member: 1550"] The generational thing could be because grandpa molested dad who molested son. Actually, our child perped on both a little girl and a little boy. He held a knife to them and made the 4 and 6 year old have sex, but also did it to them himself. Then he said he was The Devil and very powerful and that if they told anyone he could light the house on fire and kill everyone. He perped for three years. I feel so guilty, but we had no clue. We (husband and I) had told both little ones to always let us know if anybody touched them. We thought we had it covered. We were very close. All of us. In the end, they felt so powerless with this boy that they believed he would kill us if they told on Boy so they did not. This is a very touchy subject. It is one of those things where we rarely know the specifics...why, was this the only time, can he learn to control it, etc. There are no good answers. My sin had been in five foster homes before us. By his admission, he had molested younger kids, evrn infants, since he was five years old. He was not caught until age 13. In our home. He had the outward veneer of a sweet, innocent child just looking for love and we gave h I think, rather than genetic, this is fue to generational molestation. My two kids who were molested are adults now. Theu both know they wereolested, but neither child can remember it happening. Fortinately, both kids got excellent therapy and are doing really well. Please...take the younger ones for help too. Even if he didnt touch them, this is a trauma to know ehat their brother did. You certainly can support your son whether you stay eith SO or not, but dont downplay how serious this is and dont let him around younger kids. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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