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15 year old who is Passive Aggressive Antisocial traits and Conduct Disorder
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 636297" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi. I'm so sorry for you hurt. You do have your hands full, but either he was born this way or he had very chaotic early days. Was he adopted? Did he go through a very contentious divorce where he was tossed from one caregiver to another or was a caregiver not loving toward him? Any abuse? I asked because hurting animals is a very serious red flag.Does he like fire and/or pee and poop in inappropriate places? Does he use drugs? Was he always this way or is this new behavior?</p><p></p><p>At least he's smart. That is a blessing and a curse with children who have antisocial tendencies. They can really "play" us and we have to watch ourselves.</p><p></p><p>Can you share a bit more with us? Is he an only child? If his father his natural father? Did he have a normal childhood? Was he different even as an infant? </p><p></p><p>Do you feel he is a danger to you or any other children you have? If you have pets, as an animal lover, I hope you rehome your pets. </p><p></p><p>Whatever is going on, don't blame yourself. You are doing what you can and you have until he is eighteen. However, if he is violent and dangerous or crimianl, I'd consider looking for residential treatment. You can't put yourselves at risk nor any children or animals in your house, even though you love your son and hope he changes. Residential is constant therapy.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for your poor hurting mommy heart and so glad you found us (but sorry you had to).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 636297, member: 1550"] Hi. I'm so sorry for you hurt. You do have your hands full, but either he was born this way or he had very chaotic early days. Was he adopted? Did he go through a very contentious divorce where he was tossed from one caregiver to another or was a caregiver not loving toward him? Any abuse? I asked because hurting animals is a very serious red flag.Does he like fire and/or pee and poop in inappropriate places? Does he use drugs? Was he always this way or is this new behavior? At least he's smart. That is a blessing and a curse with children who have antisocial tendencies. They can really "play" us and we have to watch ourselves. Can you share a bit more with us? Is he an only child? If his father his natural father? Did he have a normal childhood? Was he different even as an infant? Do you feel he is a danger to you or any other children you have? If you have pets, as an animal lover, I hope you rehome your pets. Whatever is going on, don't blame yourself. You are doing what you can and you have until he is eighteen. However, if he is violent and dangerous or crimianl, I'd consider looking for residential treatment. You can't put yourselves at risk nor any children or animals in your house, even though you love your son and hope he changes. Residential is constant therapy. Hugs for your poor hurting mommy heart and so glad you found us (but sorry you had to). [/QUOTE]
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