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<blockquote data-quote="How did I get here" data-source="post: 718375" data-attributes="member: 22209"><p>As a former abused women. I can tell you, right now the future is not on his mind. The here and now is what he is thinking. </p><p>He was stripped of his dignity. She has convinced him that he is nothing without her. By adding sex, drugs, and whatever else, she has brainwashed him. I can't image going through that as a teenage boy. Nobody wants to buy into a boy being raped. He's falling into this is what a man should want. Deep down he must not think that way, or he wouldn't have told you. </p><p>I'm not a therapist, I did go into a field that helped other victims. No one wants to feel like a victim either. Try not pushing the future so much at this time. Maybe, try back stepping. Go play ball or something that will make him feel like a kid and protected. Maybe, mom needs to try to do the same (something that they use to do together.)</p><p>Getting counselling was a great step. Is it family counselling too? </p><p>No offense to anyone here, but, I hope this woman rots in hell. Nothing in her life gives her the right to destroy another life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="How did I get here, post: 718375, member: 22209"] As a former abused women. I can tell you, right now the future is not on his mind. The here and now is what he is thinking. He was stripped of his dignity. She has convinced him that he is nothing without her. By adding sex, drugs, and whatever else, she has brainwashed him. I can't image going through that as a teenage boy. Nobody wants to buy into a boy being raped. He's falling into this is what a man should want. Deep down he must not think that way, or he wouldn't have told you. I'm not a therapist, I did go into a field that helped other victims. No one wants to feel like a victim either. Try not pushing the future so much at this time. Maybe, try back stepping. Go play ball or something that will make him feel like a kid and protected. Maybe, mom needs to try to do the same (something that they use to do together.) Getting counselling was a great step. Is it family counselling too? No offense to anyone here, but, I hope this woman rots in hell. Nothing in her life gives her the right to destroy another life. [/QUOTE]
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