Hi I am new to this site. I started to search the internet for some answers on how to help my 19 old son who is spiralling out of control. He smokes weed, doesnt' work, won't do anything around the house. He told someone that I know that he has tried Ecstacy. Everytime I try to have a conversation with him lately, he goes off and starts yelling. He never gets violent, but he won't abide by a word we say in our house. My husband has tried to talk to him, but he only blows up. He has been seeing a Psychiatrist for a couple weeks. I think he goes and says what he thinks everyone wants to hear, then he continues to do whatever he pleases. I love my son with all my heart but I think I have to tell him he has to leave. I don't know where he will go but I worry about the influence he will have on my 16 year old daughter. They get along very well and she loves him. I don't know where else to turn. I had a brother, who at 26 years old, overdosed and died. My heart is breaking at the thought that he will end up the same way.