I don't know if I'm in the right place on this forum to be discussing this but here goes. I'm at my wits end with my soon to be 19 yr old son.All of his life he's been a mamas boy, always turning to me for everything he needs, what's really sad is how disrespectful he is too his dad, who pays all the bills. We have tried to provide him with the material things he needed, but apparently that wasn't good enough.Hes never stole cash or checks, but he has used our charge cards,to buy things without our permission. He has ordered phones online using our bank account and credit cards.I first noticed small charges on our bank statement, but sometimes it was hard to tell if they were my charges or not. Then I noticed larger charges on my bank statement, and confronted him, and told him not to do it again. Well he stopped for awhile, but then since he had the only phone in the house,I made the mistake of letting him put Apple Pay on it, for small purchases we make while we're out.Boy did that open the flood gates, the next thing I know I see charges for iPhones Xboxs,car parts, computer parts and what not. He even used my ATM card to buy his friends dinner,he usd it to get rides from uber. I told him to delete the Apple Pay app in front of me which I thought he did.So if that wasn't bad enough he started using my 3 credit cards I have, he's charged 1000s of dollars on all 3.The only reason I haven't thrown him out yet is because, he's starting a job today, and has promised to pay us back, since I don't trust him any longer, and think he will renege on his promise to pay us back, I am opening a checking account in my name only,so his checks will be directly deposited in there, just in case he gets the crazy idea,to not follow thru on his promise.If this doesn't work I don't know what else I can do,short of throwing him out,which will break my heart. My son is so smart when it comes to figuring out how to steal from my cards,even tho I've shut the cards down numerous times.Im praying that him getting a job, with stop him from stealing from us. Does anyone on this forum have anymore suggestions how we can protect our finances from our son? I already have a lockbox, I shut down the ATM card, but as soon as I applied for a new one, it was immediately updated on Apple Pay. The reason I haven't shut down the bank account,is because I have bills that automatically come out and don't want any checks to bounce.Any ideas or suggestions wil be appreciated.