Smallworld, I don't know what I'd do without you sometimes! I haven't called psychiatrist but he seems to be fairly calm. Now, it appears the rage might have been more of a depressive mood. He's grounded and barred from seeing his friend that he got in trouble with. What is really hurting him though is that now the friend is treating him like he hates him and wants to fight or at least, gets overly defensive, if difficult child even goes near him at school. This is a little odd since it was the friend that initiated the actions that got them both in trouble- the friend even told his mother that and she told me. She isn't very friendly toward me anymore either. I think when I asked some questions at school to find out their explanation about why my difficult child got arrested on top of suspension for the computer issue, something got back to their family and perhaps they took it like I thought the other boy should get arrested, too- I didn't think either boy should get arrested for it. Anyway, I guess the boy is spreading a bunch of rumors about difficult child at school, too, making it even harder for him to have anyone at all to even speak to.
If it takes a few days or week for zyprexa to start working, I will trry to keep going with this plan. Since difficult child is also on depakote er and lithobid (higher dose) was making difficult child have trembling, psychiatrist was concerned about having higher lithobid dose plus adding zyprexa. The higher dose of lithobid was only helping a small amount with the raging, but it seemd to become almost ineefective, as the raging was still becoming more frequent.
As far as the er- I can't get difficult child there by myself. The people from the county tell me to talk to psychiatrist about a safety plan- the psychiatrist says get the county to get people on board to help in case difficult child needs to go to psychiatric hospital. Well, last year when I called 911 and asked for help with this, police came and said they couldn't tdo him (like I don't know they could have made it happen) and I had to keep difficult child at home 3 more weeks then he was sent to detention for 3 weeks. So, if I call police or 911 now for this, I am sure he will go straight to detention, not psychiatric hospital- (because he is on probation).
There is something wrong with our system.