Hello everyone... started out my day with appointment with sons physcologist whom i had a little :rolleyes: resentment for from last visit.. well i showed up without son since he had school testing today so i was able to spill somethings off my chest without james right there.. i told about how frustrated i was, that if i get emotional it is not because i need my medications adjusted :grrr: it is because i am sick and i am tired of pushing my sons a** up hill all the while his feet dig in and i am told it is my fault for the way he is... i also told him that james doesn't need to be told he is special or felt sorry for or babied because his dad doesn't do what a father should...he needs to pull his boot straps up and realize life aint fair, he might as well get over it now and learn to deal with the hand he is delt and get on with it....i told him that james days are numbered in our house because my husband is going to boot him out at this rate and frankly i am so tired of the fight i almost welcome it... :crying: so do you think i got thru to him?? i felt so impowerment for once... we know what the problems are what are we going to do to fix it???huh :hammer:
so next appointment was for our daughter who has cronic stomach ache... any guesses on what doctor says... STRESSSSSSSS!!! :sad: talk to daughter on way home and we talked about her fears... she actually fears james harming me...killing me even... talked to her about knowing phone numbers and being able to call sister or neighbor... so will give her those tommmorow... tell me about other kids in your homes that are affected by difficult child....
so next appointment was for our daughter who has cronic stomach ache... any guesses on what doctor says... STRESSSSSSSS!!! :sad: talk to daughter on way home and we talked about her fears... she actually fears james harming me...killing me even... talked to her about knowing phone numbers and being able to call sister or neighbor... so will give her those tommmorow... tell me about other kids in your homes that are affected by difficult child....