First, his counselor thinks this will be a good move for difficult child. Change of scene as well as he explained alot of defiant kids will do better with a father then a mother for whatever reason. He made me feel alot better with the decision. And second, today was snow day, and difficult child was playing outside already, when the other 2 wanted to go out, so I was getting them dressed. I look in difficult child's book bag for extra gloves and what do I find??? 2 PLAYBOY magazines! WHAT? We just had a discussion about this the other day, I don't know where he found them (he says a kid from school) but he knows it's school suspension if he took them, luckily there was no school today. So I ask him why he broke the rules, he said "because I'm special"