First~we took 3 yr old difficult child to HersheyPark yesterday, thats our big whoohoo since daddy's on vacation this week, and i am just in shock and awe LOL how can a child that is such an utter terror here at home and in the stores and just makes me feel like the most inadequate parent ever 90% of the time be SOOOO good in an environment like an amusement park! i had myself all psyched up for having a really hard day yesterday. except for i think 3 times when he got over excited and tried to run, he did really well! does anyone elses difficult child do surprise them like this? it makes me question everything you know? if he can behave so well there, then why not here?? Second~i want to go ahead and get difficult child a neuropsychologist evaluation....but i dont even know where to start. we have private insurance, but they will not pay for anything, so difficult child has medical assistance that takes care of all the behavior issues. BUT his caseworker is brain dead, the only answer ive ever gotten from her about anything is "i dont know". for those who have had this done, did you just start calling places? we live in a pretty rural area so theres not alot of options. we have hershey medical about an hour away and then theres childrens hospital of philadelphia about 2-3 hours away. should i start there? any help would be appreciated!