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20 year old daughter and newborn baby kicked out
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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 668360" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>SRJD, I hear you.</p><p>I am so sorry. My heart would be breaking, too.</p><p>First of all, it is her life and you are right to create boundaries. </p><p>Second of all ... I'd be very concerned about the safety of the baby.</p><p>And maybe your daughter. </p><p>One of our cousins had a controlling husband, to the point where he installed video cameras all over the house and called to ask her why she was in certain rooms.</p><p>She is divorced now, but because she was drinking, she lost custody of their child. She got a job and regained visitation but boy, these men can do a job on your mind! He is remarried and things seem to be smoothing out.</p><p>I just mention that because I'm wondering if you can find out how he controls her ... finances, cameras, physical abuse, verbal abuse, all of the above? Does she have a FB account where you can "see" her? (Although her boyfriend probably doesn't allow her a FB page.)</p><p></p><p>You are right to be concerned AND you are also right to create boundaries. And right to see a therapist. </p><p></p><p>I've got my own new baby situation going on but it will be a different shade of stupid.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 668360, member: 3419"] SRJD, I hear you. I am so sorry. My heart would be breaking, too. First of all, it is her life and you are right to create boundaries. Second of all ... I'd be very concerned about the safety of the baby. And maybe your daughter. One of our cousins had a controlling husband, to the point where he installed video cameras all over the house and called to ask her why she was in certain rooms. She is divorced now, but because she was drinking, she lost custody of their child. She got a job and regained visitation but boy, these men can do a job on your mind! He is remarried and things seem to be smoothing out. I just mention that because I'm wondering if you can find out how he controls her ... finances, cameras, physical abuse, verbal abuse, all of the above? Does she have a FB account where you can "see" her? (Although her boyfriend probably doesn't allow her a FB page.) You are right to be concerned AND you are also right to create boundaries. And right to see a therapist. I've got my own new baby situation going on but it will be a different shade of stupid. [/QUOTE]
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