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<blockquote data-quote="mof" data-source="post: 703740" data-attributes="member: 20533"><p>Welcome to the board. Sorry you had to find us.</p><p></p><p>I don't have complete experience in add...but get the anxiety. So happy he is medication compliant. Do you know why he won't keep his jobs.</p><p></p><p>As my signature says, our adult son is home on contract also. He too sees the doctor, takes medications, has to respect us and the home. We do not charge rent, he has no car...has to buy one, he did and does work full-time. He goes to group once a week...sure to work and me being transport....does not get to his recovery mtgs....he has never stolen from us.</p><p></p><p>I would make the contract very clear...we even had a whiteboard with what need to be completed daily...he now doesn't need that. Exp...6 applications a day....</p><p></p><p>Not one thing will work for everyone...what does he use the money for? No job..wheres he going? No drugs involved??? </p><p></p><p>Our line is drug testing...work does it, we do it...he looked for a job that did to work in a safer place.</p><p></p><p>More will be along with greater wisdom...sick with us...it helps</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mof, post: 703740, member: 20533"] Welcome to the board. Sorry you had to find us. I don't have complete experience in add...but get the anxiety. So happy he is medication compliant. Do you know why he won't keep his jobs. As my signature says, our adult son is home on contract also. He too sees the doctor, takes medications, has to respect us and the home. We do not charge rent, he has no car...has to buy one, he did and does work full-time. He goes to group once a week...sure to work and me being transport....does not get to his recovery mtgs....he has never stolen from us. I would make the contract very clear...we even had a whiteboard with what need to be completed daily...he now doesn't need that. Exp...6 applications a day.... Not one thing will work for everyone...what does he use the money for? No job..wheres he going? No drugs involved??? Our line is drug testing...work does it, we do it...he looked for a job that did to work in a safer place. More will be along with greater wisdom...sick with us...it helps [/QUOTE]
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