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20 yr old daughter SO MESSY!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="TheWalrus" data-source="post: 685251" data-attributes="member: 19905"><p>There is a huge difference between messy and nasty. The unmade bed, clothes on the floor, game console stretched out, books all over, etc - that doesn't bother me. That is messy and if they are comfortable with that, so be it. If there is molding food, stains on the wall, dirty and stinking clothes that reek, trash in the room, etc - that is unsanitary and that I can't handle.</p><p></p><p>If it is just messy, that is typical and not worth expending the time, energy or stress to fight over. Let it go. If it is unsanitary, expect the messy but put some boundaries on what can/can't get out of control. If that is the worst she does, count yourself very, very lucky. And let it go.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TheWalrus, post: 685251, member: 19905"] There is a huge difference between messy and nasty. The unmade bed, clothes on the floor, game console stretched out, books all over, etc - that doesn't bother me. That is messy and if they are comfortable with that, so be it. If there is molding food, stains on the wall, dirty and stinking clothes that reek, trash in the room, etc - that is unsanitary and that I can't handle. If it is just messy, that is typical and not worth expending the time, energy or stress to fight over. Let it go. If it is unsanitary, expect the messy but put some boundaries on what can/can't get out of control. If that is the worst she does, count yourself very, very lucky. And let it go. [/QUOTE]
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