hello, My 21 year old son ( the baby of the family) won't move out. He's driving me crazy.. literally.. I feel like I'm going insane... I'm depressed, I talk to myself, I can't sleep, I don't have anyone to talk to. I'm lost and alone. he's ruined my marriage.. my husband refuses to have anything to do with my kids now.. we have separated because he forced me to choose between him and my kids... I feel guilty because I chose my kids and now I'm lonely, depressed and completely hopeless and kind of wish I chose my husband instead. My life would be so much easier if I had chosen my husband. Growing up my son had borderline adhd and was constantly in trouble. Always kicked out of daycare and schools.. Detention was a weekly occurance. It got to the point when he was 16 that I just gave up and counted the days for him to turn 18 and move out. Thank god he never got into drugs or gangs... but instead he stayed in his room for years playing world of warcraft 20 hours a day. now he's just had his 21st birthday and refuses to move out... he keeps setting dates to move out but then comes up with excuses everytime... he works a part time job and goes to college... he got a free student grant for 4000 so he has plenty of money to move into his own apartment but he JUST WON"T MOVE!!!! i just want my freedom... i want to be alone... i want the house to myself so I can think... what can I do to get him to move?????