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22, with 4 month old now stealing from us.
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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 638063" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>How is she taking care of the baby? You say she has a good relationship with the baby - is she taking responsibility for the baby? Is there a possibility that she is having hormonal problems? Doesn't explain the stealing but just asking to get a better picture of what you are dealing with. Is she taking birth control (a long term one would be a good fix for someone 22 and 2 pregnancies) Make that a priority and a condition (at minimum, of staying at your house). You said she is on welfare, how is she using it to move her life forward? </p><p>Personally I believe in "if they are going to manipulate you, you have every right to manipulate back". Having said that, since you have all the evidence on the boyfriend actually doing the illegal sale to the pawnshop I would threaten to have him arrested to get an agreement of some sort out of her.</p><p></p><p>Not a whole lot to go on here but seems you may being dealing with someone who is either bi-polar or borderline personality disorder, by the way you describe how quick she is to start up relationships with men. </p><p></p><p>Before I would feel comfortable telling you how to proceed, I guess I would need more information on what has been going on long term.</p><p></p><p>I feel so bad for you though. When difficult children bring babies/children into the scenario, it creates a whole bunch of new problems and heartache.</p><p>If they already manipulated before, now they have a new weapon to use against you.</p><p></p><p> I think you need a plan on what exactly you are going to do so don't start kicking <em>yourself</em> just yet.</p><p>Post more and we will help you with more ideas.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 638063, member: 18366"] How is she taking care of the baby? You say she has a good relationship with the baby - is she taking responsibility for the baby? Is there a possibility that she is having hormonal problems? Doesn't explain the stealing but just asking to get a better picture of what you are dealing with. Is she taking birth control (a long term one would be a good fix for someone 22 and 2 pregnancies) Make that a priority and a condition (at minimum, of staying at your house). You said she is on welfare, how is she using it to move her life forward? Personally I believe in "if they are going to manipulate you, you have every right to manipulate back". Having said that, since you have all the evidence on the boyfriend actually doing the illegal sale to the pawnshop I would threaten to have him arrested to get an agreement of some sort out of her. Not a whole lot to go on here but seems you may being dealing with someone who is either bi-polar or borderline personality disorder, by the way you describe how quick she is to start up relationships with men. Before I would feel comfortable telling you how to proceed, I guess I would need more information on what has been going on long term. I feel so bad for you though. When difficult children bring babies/children into the scenario, it creates a whole bunch of new problems and heartache. If they already manipulated before, now they have a new weapon to use against you. I think you need a plan on what exactly you are going to do so don't start kicking [I]yourself[/I] just yet. Post more and we will help you with more ideas. [/QUOTE]
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