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26 yr old homeless drug addicted son
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 726344" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Welcome CH. I'm so sorry for what you are going through but am so glad you found us here. While we can't make this go away for you we can offer you much needed support and love.</p><p></p><p></p><p>No, it's not bad for you to say this. You deserve peace and if your son being locked up affords you that then so be it.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I know how you feel. My son is also 6'4" and he has scared me many times. I'm glad you do not go outside when he shows up.</p><p></p><p>Staying safe must be your top priority. If you do not have a security system I suggest you get one. There is a new one called Ring that has a camera that goes to your phone. You can record your son when he shows up. This way you have more documentation of what he's doing. I would continue to call the police. Install some flood lights around your house. </p><p></p><p></p><p>I'm glad that you stopped giving him money and food. It's only been 8 weeks since you stopped and it will take time for your son to finally get the message that you are done. </p><p>Again, continue to call the police. Do not engage with your son.</p><p></p><p>I know how hard this is. It breaks our hearts to watch our child spiral out of control but you have to keep yourself safe. </p><p></p><p>If you have not read the article on detachment I strongly suggest you do. Print it out and re-read it over and over.</p><p></p><p>Please let us know how you are doing. We care.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you..............................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 726344, member: 18516"] Welcome CH. I'm so sorry for what you are going through but am so glad you found us here. While we can't make this go away for you we can offer you much needed support and love. No, it's not bad for you to say this. You deserve peace and if your son being locked up affords you that then so be it. I know how you feel. My son is also 6'4" and he has scared me many times. I'm glad you do not go outside when he shows up. Staying safe must be your top priority. If you do not have a security system I suggest you get one. There is a new one called Ring that has a camera that goes to your phone. You can record your son when he shows up. This way you have more documentation of what he's doing. I would continue to call the police. Install some flood lights around your house. I'm glad that you stopped giving him money and food. It's only been 8 weeks since you stopped and it will take time for your son to finally get the message that you are done. Again, continue to call the police. Do not engage with your son. I know how hard this is. It breaks our hearts to watch our child spiral out of control but you have to keep yourself safe. If you have not read the article on detachment I strongly suggest you do. Print it out and re-read it over and over. Please let us know how you are doing. We care. ((HUGS)) to you.............................. [/QUOTE]
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