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3.5 years old -> Not Learning Fast enough?
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<blockquote data-quote="Dad4Life" data-source="post: 6342" data-attributes="member: 3303"><p>Thank you all for great advise! As much I don't want to hear about these issue, I want to be aware and I appreciate your observation. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Some of these behaviors are starting to show up in recent months (especially badly in the last two months). During this time, he moved to a different class and we didn't think he like the teachers. Prior to that he was going to school hapily but not lately (as he is throwing fits when we try to drop him at school). I think they are also giving him lot of punishment as I see him repeat those at home "No Sir, not have that...go corner...stop it... do not hit...alright!...OK!" etc etc. </p><p></p><p>I should mention that we have changed his daycare (4 times) in his 3 and half years. I really think that put some stress in him, also he has gotten in trouble with hitting, biting kids for which he got timeouts (it got so bad that if I got just a little mad at him for doing anything bad, he will quickly run to the corner). By the way, that has changed to now he doesnt acknowledge timeouts anymore.</p><p></p><p>By the way, I must say I am leaving out most of the positive stuff about him as I can write a book here. He is a very good kid and many people adores him (including many people in his daycare). At a very early age, if picked up when to say "Please" , "Thank you" etc . He also very sharp with colors, shapes, surroundings, 1-10 (no hesitation) 11-15 (little weak) and sings the ABC among many other song. He act just fine always and never had any worry but lately observing this repeating behavior. Oh by the way, as I mentioned, he loves animal and has many animal toys that he would stand line by line. </p><p></p><p>He is not as interested in his other toys as much he loves his animal (though he would play with them time to time). He loves to read books and love it if we read to him. I can ask him "What is that? and he will tell me almost always correctly. Sometime he will ask me "What's that daddy?" pointing to a toy Giraffe and I will reply "Chicken?" and he will say "No, its nna Giraffe" </p><p></p><p>We do think he isolate himself from other kids often and I am to be blamed for that. I often get worried that he would hit other children and try to keep total control on him which also stresses him out and often retaliate by hitting me or throwing stuff.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dad4Life, post: 6342, member: 3303"] Thank you all for great advise! As much I don't want to hear about these issue, I want to be aware and I appreciate your observation. Some of these behaviors are starting to show up in recent months (especially badly in the last two months). During this time, he moved to a different class and we didn't think he like the teachers. Prior to that he was going to school hapily but not lately (as he is throwing fits when we try to drop him at school). I think they are also giving him lot of punishment as I see him repeat those at home "No Sir, not have that...go corner...stop it... do not hit...alright!...OK!" etc etc. I should mention that we have changed his daycare (4 times) in his 3 and half years. I really think that put some stress in him, also he has gotten in trouble with hitting, biting kids for which he got timeouts (it got so bad that if I got just a little mad at him for doing anything bad, he will quickly run to the corner). By the way, that has changed to now he doesnt acknowledge timeouts anymore. By the way, I must say I am leaving out most of the positive stuff about him as I can write a book here. He is a very good kid and many people adores him (including many people in his daycare). At a very early age, if picked up when to say "Please" , "Thank you" etc . He also very sharp with colors, shapes, surroundings, 1-10 (no hesitation) 11-15 (little weak) and sings the ABC among many other song. He act just fine always and never had any worry but lately observing this repeating behavior. Oh by the way, as I mentioned, he loves animal and has many animal toys that he would stand line by line. He is not as interested in his other toys as much he loves his animal (though he would play with them time to time). He loves to read books and love it if we read to him. I can ask him "What is that? and he will tell me almost always correctly. Sometime he will ask me "What's that daddy?" pointing to a toy Giraffe and I will reply "Chicken?" and he will say "No, its nna Giraffe" We do think he isolate himself from other kids often and I am to be blamed for that. I often get worried that he would hit other children and try to keep total control on him which also stresses him out and often retaliate by hitting me or throwing stuff. [/QUOTE]
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