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<blockquote data-quote="PennyFromTheBlock" data-source="post: 639967" data-attributes="member: 18271"><p>Thanks for the responses- and MWM thanks for giving a different example of that convo- I'm so going to use that.</p><p></p><p>I know one thing I wouldn't have done and he knows as well, and that is give him money. He knows we are DONE DONE DONE with that. At best, until my mind cleared - I considered paying the APARTMENT complex deposit money, etc. </p><p></p><p>My guess at what is happening- he moved in with this girl when he had nowhere else to go in August. She's probably on his neck. Probably trying to set expectations- and he doesn't like it. Because he has a car, if push came to shove, he could sleep in that. He has burned every bridge he has in regards to family, and sadly (and it really IS sad to me) he has no real 'friends'. He has acquaintances. There isn't anyone to help him.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad to find out he's working- THANK GOODNESS. That's one plus- that he has a job. I don't know how long he has been there- but hopefully he's realizing that he has to keep it and can't get mad and just 'quit'.</p><p></p><p>I would be very proud if he figured out a way to get his own apartment. That is really what he needs to do- the only concern about that is how often he would be alone- in this thoughts......</p><p></p><p>crisis averted!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PennyFromTheBlock, post: 639967, member: 18271"] Thanks for the responses- and MWM thanks for giving a different example of that convo- I'm so going to use that. I know one thing I wouldn't have done and he knows as well, and that is give him money. He knows we are DONE DONE DONE with that. At best, until my mind cleared - I considered paying the APARTMENT complex deposit money, etc. My guess at what is happening- he moved in with this girl when he had nowhere else to go in August. She's probably on his neck. Probably trying to set expectations- and he doesn't like it. Because he has a car, if push came to shove, he could sleep in that. He has burned every bridge he has in regards to family, and sadly (and it really IS sad to me) he has no real 'friends'. He has acquaintances. There isn't anyone to help him. I'm glad to find out he's working- THANK GOODNESS. That's one plus- that he has a job. I don't know how long he has been there- but hopefully he's realizing that he has to keep it and can't get mad and just 'quit'. I would be very proud if he figured out a way to get his own apartment. That is really what he needs to do- the only concern about that is how often he would be alone- in this thoughts...... crisis averted! [/QUOTE]
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