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3 stores, 2 was he&* and Im just going in circles!!!(Bigger clothes why??)Broken door...
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 626154" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Confused...probably nothing will change until your lifestyle does. And at one point in time, you will break down at this rate and have no choice.</p><p></p><p>Doing the same thing over and over again that <em><strong>did not and does not and will not work</strong></em> is going to doom the entire family to failure. Has he yet seen a neuropsychologist? It's getting late. He is getting older. You need to make time to push the issue with his primary doctor and not allow him to make excuses. You need to get him interventions. You need to take him for therapy and go with and listen to the therapist. You need a therapist for yourself NOW, not later or YOU will be paranlyzed with fear at t he thought of changing anything. You need therapy NOW. You need to find a sitter and not take him to the store with you (I never took my Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) son shopping with me). You need to learn a different way to set boundaries on EVERYONE in your life. Or nothing will change. Nothing.</p><p></p><p>Somebody once said that the definition of insanity is to do the same things over and over again and then expect change.</p><p></p><p>Life isn't like that. You have a lot on your plate, a lot to think about, and can make changes to better the life of your family, but only YOU can do it. We can listen with sympathy, but you have to be the one who does the hard work it takes, like we all have. Not easy. Doesn't please the world. But necessary. Good luck getting the right mindset to make some major changes....finally.</p><p></p><p>I am praying for you and yours.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 626154, member: 1550"] Confused...probably nothing will change until your lifestyle does. And at one point in time, you will break down at this rate and have no choice. Doing the same thing over and over again that [I][B]did not and does not and will not work[/B][/I] is going to doom the entire family to failure. Has he yet seen a neuropsychologist? It's getting late. He is getting older. You need to make time to push the issue with his primary doctor and not allow him to make excuses. You need to get him interventions. You need to take him for therapy and go with and listen to the therapist. You need a therapist for yourself NOW, not later or YOU will be paranlyzed with fear at t he thought of changing anything. You need therapy NOW. You need to find a sitter and not take him to the store with you (I never took my Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) son shopping with me). You need to learn a different way to set boundaries on EVERYONE in your life. Or nothing will change. Nothing. Somebody once said that the definition of insanity is to do the same things over and over again and then expect change. Life isn't like that. You have a lot on your plate, a lot to think about, and can make changes to better the life of your family, but only YOU can do it. We can listen with sympathy, but you have to be the one who does the hard work it takes, like we all have. Not easy. Doesn't please the world. But necessary. Good luck getting the right mindset to make some major changes....finally. I am praying for you and yours. [/QUOTE]
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