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33 year old difficult child homeless in CO
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 638841" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Thank you Tanya, I do now, it took me too many years to get to this point to let my difficult child's behavior take it away.</p><p></p><p>My salvation is also spiritual. A big help is my hubby, he came into my life when difficult child was an adult, so he is not emotionally involved, he helps me stay grounded.</p><p></p><p>I have a friend going through the same thing with her 25yo difficult child, no drugs or alcohol, just difficult child behavior and dumps it in mom's lap. I just listen when she talks and cries, no advise, there's none to give.</p><p></p><p>I do keep my difficult child's behavior to my self, simply because in the past (and now with my family) it's all people want to talk about when we are together and if I did not get away from it I would go back to being very close to stark raving mad lol.</p><p></p><p>My days of life revolving around my difficult child are long gone. We all know it's still painful, we love them regardless, but life does go on. I never give up, but I don't hold my breath.</p><p></p><p>I'll give myself short bouts of 'pity me' when he really gets me down, then I have learned to shake it off. My heart goes out to the newbies with the young difficult children, it's a coin toss whether they will 'straighten up and fly right' or continue to wander aimlessly through life.</p><p></p><p>I have so many positive things in my life, and many blessings.</p><p>(((hugs and blessings)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 638841, member: 13558"] Thank you Tanya, I do now, it took me too many years to get to this point to let my difficult child's behavior take it away. My salvation is also spiritual. A big help is my hubby, he came into my life when difficult child was an adult, so he is not emotionally involved, he helps me stay grounded. I have a friend going through the same thing with her 25yo difficult child, no drugs or alcohol, just difficult child behavior and dumps it in mom's lap. I just listen when she talks and cries, no advise, there's none to give. I do keep my difficult child's behavior to my self, simply because in the past (and now with my family) it's all people want to talk about when we are together and if I did not get away from it I would go back to being very close to stark raving mad lol. My days of life revolving around my difficult child are long gone. We all know it's still painful, we love them regardless, but life does go on. I never give up, but I don't hold my breath. I'll give myself short bouts of 'pity me' when he really gets me down, then I have learned to shake it off. My heart goes out to the newbies with the young difficult children, it's a coin toss whether they will 'straighten up and fly right' or continue to wander aimlessly through life. I have so many positive things in my life, and many blessings. (((hugs and blessings))) [/QUOTE]
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