Hello, The psychologist diagnosed my son. He has asked about ADD/ADHD as a possible reason, but I seriously don't believe that he has those issues. He is not on the go constantly, can stay focused, is not hyperactive, I am thinking it may be anxiety, but then again not sure. But if things are not going his way, or it seems as if he may feel that you are not listening to him (which can be difficult because he also tends to mumble when he is starting to frustrated), or he gets frustrated he will start throwing things, screaming, deliberately try to break things, rip up paper. I try to head some of his temper tantrums off at the pass, but it is difficult. If you try to hold him (like safe hold therapy) he will scream, cry, scratch, bite, hit, you name it. He seems to only have a sensitivity to light, especially bright light. If you try to ask him what you can do to help him when he is raging or getting close to raging he screams at you to leave him alone. Most of his rage seems to be directed at me which can really be hard to deal with at times. The last couple of days haven't been to bad, but then his dad (at least I feel) didn't really listen to him or his brother tonight. That can sometimes even make things worse. I don't know, every day is different, I try to minimize to many changes and hope that there are no tantrums this day.